3rder: Threesome Swingers App Reviews

by ArtMetalDude

3rder is the definition of “waste of time”. I made a profile, like & dislike profiles I see... then the next day my profile didn’t exist and had to start over again. Day two: made a profile, like & dislike profiles. Day three: I open 3rder to find out that my picture was deleted because it violated their terms... it was a picture of me from the waist up, wearing normal clothes, my face was not obscured in any way. I found it bizarre so I searched 3rder to see what “terms” this picture could have violated but couldn’t find it. Used a different picture then swiped through the exact same profiles in the exact same order as the previous day. Day four: my second photo was was deleted because it violated their terms; still don’t know what the terms are and why a clear picture of my face and torso wearing clothes isn’t acceptable. Uploaded another picture and then swiped through the exact same profiles in the exact same order as the previous two days. Day five: the first day that my profile and/or picture wasn’t deleted. However, I swiped through the exact same profiles in the exact same order as the previous three days. Completely waste of time. Fool me once, shame on you; fool me twice, shame on me; fool me five days in a row... negative review. The people on 3rder may be real people but 3rder doesn’t work in its most basic functions so you’ll never meet anyone on it.

by Titan2004

Update: They still have fake accounts like/send a kiss etc. they are always mid to late twenties, single, bisexual females that do not live in a city, they live in the “US”. Now the site prevents you from reporting these fake profiles for being fake or spam. Seriously?! I am now canceling my subscription and telling everyone I know to avoid this platform at all costs. Must pay to actually see what I’m about to tell you. The majority of accounts are overseas. Many accounts have only one picture and multiple accounts are using stolen pictures of the same people, just different poses and clothing and of course different names. Majority of profiles that are bait to keep you active, don’t even have much effort put into them. They aren’t even trying very hard to mislead people yet they have no problem taking your money and wasting your time. Other sites are better. I’ve now been contacted by the company. They say they don’t create fake accounts. Might be true. Might be the company contracted to create fake accounts. Daily I average 6 reporting fake accounts and blocking them. They continue to use exact same tag lines and even still the same girls in different poses and clothes. Very disappointed I gave my money here. I spend more time reporting fake accounts than searching for or responding to real people.

by Cassandra Munns

In my short time on 3rder, I have come across a duplicate profile picture of the same person, but their profile name, location, description of themselves, and description of their match are sooo different. I believe the owner of 3rder is creating fake profiles to make 3rder seem believable. I have not met up with one person, nor have my emails to them been replied to. On June 25th, I did receive an email from Stephanie, from Michigan, who immediately wanted me to be her sugar baby and gave me her phone number. I immediately thought that this is a strange approach but, gave her a call. She didn’t answer, but instead, she text back and forth with me for about 10mins and then I have never heard from her since. Ok, fine. However, why in the hell did I come across the same picture of Stephanie tonight, July 8th, but her name is now Stacey and she is from Florida, and her descriptions are completely different...? I’d take all of my personal info off of this site immediately and shut down your account immediately! Scammers are stealing your identity, personal and financial information from you. Don’t believe these 5-Star reviews...they are submitted by owners of this app, 3somer, and all other associated apps.

by Ashen Saint

The UX of 3rder itself leaves much to be desired. There’s no clear way to directly go to editing your profile or what you are looking for. An edit icon on your picture assumes picture editing, not profile. Each of the search options (search, square, newbies, nearby) etc doesn’t really make sense which leads me to my next point.

LOOKING FOR. If you are a couple looking for a female, for example, only females looking for couples should show in your search results. Specifically bisexual females. Why are straight women, men, and couples showing in our feed and why are we showing up in the feed of men and couples who are then allowed to try and contact us? This should be a basic feature and easy to implement but again this seems like a lazy developer choice to make it seem like there are more available users. Instead when searching I have to click the profile itself and verify this is a bisexual female looking for FM couples so we don’t waste theirs or our time.

So far no luck with 3rder and feeling frustrated because of poor implementation.

by Samialex98

We got 3rder bc we were looking for a 3rd- the vast majority of the profiles on here were single dudes, and the rest were mostly straight women. Why would you as a girl only interested in men think that a couple would want you to join BOTH of them if you’re only capable of being sexually attracted to one of them ? I also specified in 3rder settings that we were only interested in women and yet it showed tons of men.
Regardless, we live in Los Angeles so I assumed there would be a lot to choose from, right? Totally wrong. Scrolled through about 2 dozen profiles of single, straight women and men with 2 or 3 couples sprinkled in and then ran out of options near me. Absolutely a waste of our time and money.
Also an issue, they ask you to pay more to be a “VIP” - meaning you can see who has sent you a ‘kiss’ or liked your profile. Feel like if they sent you something that says they’re interested (kiss) then you shouldn’t have to pay to view it- obvious money grab. Just generally hated 3rder

by XXCamkiller518Xx

It has its perks but it’s a money grab through and through. You’re forced to pay a HIGH amount in order to chat directly with people on app. Should you try to work around the system and list your outside contact info they block it from view so that you’re forced to purchase. There’s also the issue of distance and age preference. The age preference modifier isn’t easy to find, but it’s accessible. The distance modifier is completely inaccessible until you sign up and pay the HIGH rate. The interface is also clunky and a chore to get through from one account to the next.

All that said it’s worth downloading to check for yourself. 3rder is minimally to mildly functional without paying. It definitely needs A LOT of improvement, but it’s better than a lot of the other apps out there. I would advise Tinder, Bumble, Pure or Hinge over this any given day

by Rightly: App

Talked with some really cool people on this hookup app. Indeed a new way to meet swingers friends nsa. Like a whole new adventure for me. From what Ive seen, it’s a lovely 3some dating app that allows you to flirt anonymously with some random strangers. Also very promising for swingers who want to have a threesome or free hookup with someone who want nothing but some casual hookup thing. However, the only thing is that it doesnt get much of a large user base. Seems younger compared with tinder or the 3fun dating site. Shouldve got many more users, so we can find local people easier. Sometimes you would run out of people around you and then you'd have to come back later. This is a major issue. Other than this, I think everything else is working as it should. That's why I say this dating app deserves to be found by more people. It's surely a nice platform for the swingers to get together and have some fun. The marketing team should do better job at publicity and advertising maybe. Just a suggestion. So I would recommend this dating site as a real user with some really positive experiences despite this minor object. Oh, also would be nice to offer some free trial or just make it free to get more users. Before you have enough user base, you should consider making money as the secondary objective, cauz with enough users, youll definitely get much bigger profit. This is my suggestion.

by Malliyah E

I always wanted to try some online dating app, since the virus is going out there and it’s not so safe to go outside and have some fun. Been using this hook up app for like 3 months, from what I’ve seen, most features are very nice here. You get more options here than other dating apps besides from casual sex. Threesome is also a nice option if you want it. I can see many swingers couples. But even if you are not a swingers, finding some fwb for free hookup won’t be an issue here as well. It basically depends on each individuals. I’ll just be satisfied to get some real people to talk to and kill time when I’m bored. However, the only trouble is, if you are looking for someone for the rest of your life, that might not be so easy. At least not as easy as tinder or bumble and other dating apps like these two. this app is more for hookup. Maybe not so good for dating. Of course, if you want hookup only, this is definitely one of the best choice out there I think??? Haven’t tried much dating apps. But so far, from my own experience, it’s been nice in helping find some new friends to talk to. But did encountered one or two fakes, not as many as they say. Just be careful. Actually, they are pretty easy to spot. For me, it haven’t cause much of a trouble. So, only based on the features and designs, I would still rate this swingers app 5 star, cauz I really did find what I want here... So I’ll say it’s worth a try...

by Dhivyap

My friends said that this is a very nice threesome dating app. 3rder stands out in terms of its design and functionality. I've tried some dating apps like tinder before, but they're nowhere near as powerful as this app. In particular. It's features are very practical and simple to navigate. The people on the dating site is all for casual thing, not for dating, which might be good for some, while bad for the others who are into relationships. Personally, I think this dating site is worth trying. It's a nice choice to have fun and meet some new people, whether for fwb or some nice meetup with strangers. However, the only downside is you can't video chat with people. This is not good for dating apps especially for these hookup apps. We need to see if the other people is real and is the person they portray themselves to be. I suggest you to add this feature. Many other big sites have that feature. Just check tinder or bumble out! They definitely have that! This should really be improved.

by Eunice FieldingDzn

It was about last week I read a piece of news about a threesome app called 3somer. The news said 3somer is related to erotic and fake information which makes users suffer a loss, so it is closed forever by 3rder store. I bought a subscription for three months gold membership and I know I will have no way to get my money back. Some of my friends on 3somer have turned to 3rder for help when they found they are cheated by it and they swear that they will not mention 3some from now on. Have been on this app for a few days, it is really a great swinger app for all of us to start our new relationships and I look forward to my new friends and my next relationship to my desire of swingers.

by Afra PitmanHE4

Frankly, this is not my first time to be on a new app to find my partner for threesomes or kinky dating. Before 3rder, I have used 3Fun and 3Somer, and what I can tell you is that 3Somer is the worst app in this dating field. Although 3Somer calls itself is one of the best threesome apps in the market, it has so many scammers and fraudsters. I heard about many users on 3Somer are cheated by other members, so I quit it some days ago. When I was searching for new app for swinger dating, this app came to my sight and a lot of people recommend 3rder to people like me. Being a superb threesome finder app, this app can offer me all the features and real user I want.

by Sherry AustinF

I knew 3somer from one of my friends half a month ago and she told me it’s worth a try to me. So I downloaded it from the Apple Store but then I found it is not 3rder I am looking for. I paid money for a vip member and it still didn’t work for me, so it was totally a waste of my money. I wrote something to its support team, but I got no replies back at this moment. Last week I found it was moved out of 3rder store when I was ready to gave it another chance to help me get some partners for a threesome dating. In a word, it is a terrible swinger app for all of open-minded people and I don’t know why such an app can exist in the market for a long time.

by Julian ThompsonSpY

It is difficult for us to find a real couple on the dead threesome app 3Somer until one of our friends recommended this app to us. He said this is the best popular threesome app among couples and single people and after a dew weeks’ using, we find what he said are the truth. No matter we aim to seek single women or another couple for threesomes or swingers, we can achieve the goal. With its large user database, we have a lot of potential matches to get matches with each other and meanwhile, other users are have ways to get in touch with us. My wife told me that she likes 3rder so much and she wishes we can find a hot woman to meet my demand in the bedroom. I love my wife so much! We are here waiting for you!

by Albert Eddie8AR

I didn’t know this swinger app before because I stayed another app called 3somer for about a couple of weeks but it didn’t work for me. It is said that 3somer is a fake app that is copied from other similar threesome apps so that it is removed by app store and it seems that it cannot released its new version any more. So I come to 3rder to continue my threesome journey and I find 3rder works as well as 3somer and it has some advantages over 3somer. I hope it can work stable all the time, then I can definitely find some nice couples or hot girls for threesomes or swingers. If I can arrange a threesome dating successfully, I think it’s time to invite my friends to join 3rder to have fun.

by たりおと

My wife and I have been used this dating app for a few months. We have met a lot of like-minded couples who are looking for swingers, and we got along very well. So, this app is just the best one in our hearts which created opportunities for couples like us to make some changes to our boring life and we will succeed in the end, unlike get nothing on Feeld and some other apps of this kind we have used before. Although 3rder is not a perfect app which has some glitches, the development team behind always make the most to improve it. And actually, 3rder has been getting better and better since the day I began to use it.

by 協船東會為作門

Although I prefer to use an online app for free rather than to pay it, I am quite willing to pay this unique swingers dating app because the subscription prices are very reasonable. If you are using Feeld at this moment, you will understand me since you are asked to pay a lot of money for a premium membership. However, on this app, you only have to pay at most 10$ a month and you can get as many new features and privileges as you can get on Feeld. So, if you want to promote your dating process by spending a little money, this app must be the option for you and it is always waiting for your coming.

by Raymond Middleton47j

We are a couple from New York City and we have been looking for other couples or single women for a threesome lifestyle since we found we are so interested in threesomes. In the past few years, we have made several successful threesome parties with some open people who live nearby or in the other state. During the parties, we all have good experience and actually, threesomes relationship with another one or two at the same time are really full of excitement and adventure. We are going to arrange our next party in a few month because you know finding some perfect partners is not an easy job while under the help of 3rder, everything is going on smoothly right now. If you are planning to engage in a threesome, this is a nice place to find what you want.

by Owen CongreveDQg

I love have threesomes with strangers, not friends or someone I know because threesomes with different people you don’t know is absolutely adventurous I am looking for all the time. So you can find me have registered a lot of accounts on different threesome apps such as feel dating, this app, 3fun and 3somer (3somer is removed from application list now), and I think feel dating is the best but it is a little complicated and you have to pay much money if you want to be a premium member. this app has a lot of simple but powerful dating features for me to get open-minded couples and it doesn’t cost me too much to be a gold members. So, generally, this app is the most cost-effective threesome app in the market, while I will stay on 3rder for a long time and wish me good luck to find someone can meet my needs in swinger relationships.

by Stev1os

It’s a pretty good threesome dating app
The online dirty tinder dating app works better than other casual hookup apps in many ways. That’s why the dating app got such a good review. I’ve seen the dating app’s history of optimisations, and so far there are no bugs or crashes. I met a lot of great dating partners and real friends here. To be honest, as long as you’re honest with each other in this threesome dating app, it’s not too hard to find the right date. I think the best thing about this dating app is that it’s very human. I love their customer service, like when I report a user, they get back to me right away. If I report problems with 3rder , they respond quickly. So, it’s a trusty threesome dating app, and I’m glad I’m a member. If you’re looking for a date, or a friend, then this online dating app is for you better than Tinder or Bumble. So, don’t hesitate, you just need to download this app and then you can get some wonderful online dating experiences.

by Betsy CharleyTU8

Hey guys, I am not a person who usually write something about a dating app, but today I am here to say these words because I am angry with 3somer - a terrible app in threesome dating market. We didn’t know what happened and then it disappeared last week and we cannot find it any longer. Maybe as it said, the development team of 3somer give up 3rder and let it die in the future. I don’t think an app does this to its members will gain a good reputation. 3rder is an alternative option for people who are willing to engage in threesomes dating and swinging lifestyle, and in fact, it is really a good choice for all of us. I have had a good time on 3rder, and also, you should try it to see if it works for you.

by Ggggvhgfdt

3rder is terrible!! All you are able to do on this site is to add your profile and information. The only thing it lets you do is to see who likes you, but then you aren’t able to look at the other peoples profile or even message them, without paying $9.99 a month! Do not fall for the carrot they are putting in front of your face!! What’s bad is they delete profile pictures of yours (believe me, there was nothing obscene and no nudity) and you can’t delete your profile!! I don’t want to uninstall 3rder and leave my profile picture on 3rder, for anyone else to look at!! It got 1 star only because I

by Eucsol

It was fun in the beginning, but even after paying for subscription there was little control in their filter among other issues. Two people could not be logged in at same time. If you are a couple wanting to share, that’s a problem. The worst part was we connected to many people and then with 2 weeks left in subscription our VIP status was removed. Features didn’t work. No explanation; no support. We tried communicating in different ways to support; no joy. A few days later, our account was deleted. No explanation; no support. Never got our list of contacts or messages back. So nearly 3 weeks of building contacts with lots of messaging was lost.

by Issy's MomMom

Quick Match not only shows profiles of users that are not what I checked as “interested in”, but the same profiles are being used for every single round. Was considering purchasing for a month or two, but read reviews by users saying they purchased and still get the same profiles again and again!
Users are supposed to be able to message matches or connections. Nope. Sent feedback, but no reply as of yet.
The quick match clock constantly resets so you don’t even get to view any profiles unless you unlock by purchasing a month for $9.99.
I didn’t have much on my profile, which was a great thing considering it was all deleted and I had to start over.
If problems are fixed, I’ll change rating and review.
You can’t expect someone to pay $10 a month if you can’t even keep the free features operating smoothly.

by Angelo Raymondl

Never met any problem with this threesome app. I downloaded it from app store accidentally. Then I signed up, filled out some information about myself and start to discover how it works. It works well when I am online looking for some kinky couples profiles and talking with some nice people. 3rder is definitely high quality and I will recommend it to anyone who wants to have a threesome lifestyle.

by Finally54works For Me

I have tried several similar dating app in hope to find a nice threesome relationship. But I was failed until I found 3Somes. I joined 3rder just because the perfect design and the positive reviews from other members. However, 3rder gave me a big surprise after I tried it out. It is easy to navigate and I had a great opportunity to meet beautiful ladies in my own city. Now, I am already in connection with a beautiful lady. Thank you guys for setting up this nice app!

by Walter Juliana9

On this app you only need to pay less than 10 dollars while you have to par more than 15 dollars to become a VIP member on these two similar threesome apps. What I can tell my friends is that 3somer is not works as well as this app, and now it is removed out from 3rder Store. This is not the first time it is punished because of its scam and cheat to users. It must be reported by someone, and then the company finds out those scammers and fraudsters on 3somer. I call on people not to use it even it gets the chance to be on the market again, because it will be a completely same app as this one. No guys want to make the same mistake twice on a same thing, especially on this expensive and fake swinger app.

by Franklin Stevensoni0

I joined 3somer three month ago, I thought I were lucky when I met my lover Sally on the threesome app, but 3somer is disappear from app store suddenly yesterday. This bad news push me in to ice since we are planing to meet in her city. I originally thought i could not find 3somer or my Sally any more. There are always twists and turns in life. I met Sally on this app again. Try this app if you are missing your lover on 3somer.