Tea - Safe Dating for Women Reviews

by Astros2022BOSSES⚾️⚾️⚾️⚾️

A girl in a FB group referred me (I think she was actually advertising 🤷🏻‍♀️). She called it a free app. It’s not free. You need to be able to search name and city but you much pay for that feature. Apparently there is a limited search feature which I would have saved when I was just exploring and figuring out Tea ’s capabilities, wasn’t even doing real searches so I wasted those 3 🥴 free searches. I’ll be looking into if this was started by Paola. The fb groups should have raised MORE THAN ENOUGH to cover app costs that are referred to in the other reviews.

I find this gross. Maybe I’ll come around or be back, but for now I’ll stick with fb.

by Spongebobsbestfan

App is rendered utterly useless unless you pay for the subscription! 5-10 monthly, although there are already FREE pages that allow for this same information. For example, I can’t even target my location without paying a subscription. I’m in a completely different state than the people showing in my feed. That’s ridiculous to me! I hope something changes or this will never really take off the way Tea designer intends. FOR example once more- I’ll just ask someone to search for me who does pay in my area instead of paying just to see the local area. SMH.

by Mushy_moo

you can’t even filter posts by location/relevance without paying for premium. which is weird considering you’re supposed to be able to do a background check but can’t check if there has been a post about that person before? you can only make a new post and there’s no telling if it will reach people who can help.

update: i was allowed one free search and still can’t filter the results by distance. and when i used the one search there was a pop up that can’t be closed that blocked half the screen saying to upgrade. and like another review ive seen it says i used all 5 searches. i do appreciate the developers reaching out and listening to users but PLEASE stop pushing premium so hard. it makes Tea almost unusable

by Chrystyclarkson

Great setup; however, I found it strange that I’ve been single for 4 years in 2 major cities. I’ve looked up both cities and not one profile even looked familiar. It seems a bit suspicious.
I’ve been on the big 3 of dating apps on and off and have swiped on so many profiles. It’s just a bit strange that not one of my dates has been listed here though?

by Interrobangggggg

There are a lot of strangely worded comments that multiple “users” post over and over. It seems like there are a lot of bots leaving the same comments on different posts to make Tea seem busy.

Who on earth types out, “he’s like, so attractive!” Other common ones are, “he’s got that catfish vibe” on guys who are not good looking enough to be catfish, “I swear, I know him from somewhere, but my memory’s failing me,” “he’s giving me major deja vu vibes, but I can’t put my finger on it,” “seriously, I’m drooling over his looks!”, etc.

I think it’s a useful app overall, but the fake users/comments take away a lot of credibility from an app that’s supposed to be based on privacy and safety.

by Bjenele011

I think it’s a good app for ladies to protect themselves, but when ladies give advice who come from successful relationships the girls will go off on you. Honestly, I want women to have the best dating experience and I think Tea has great intentions. The admin is great. But looking at the situations some ladies are in, they do it to themselves, but don’t give advice or hold anyone accountable or they will curse you out

by Just Sayin13

What a wonderful concept to keep ladies safe and informed. I noted a couple of things:
When looking through the posts Tea sometimes randomly closes itself.
Also I find it unhelpful when women comment on the posts saying that the men are handsome or they have no this app to report. I thought Tea was supposed to provide helpful information not feedback on the guys looks or random unhelpful comments.

by Protectedfrompredators

Having been hurt before, I find this app Tea is a crucial component to protect from bad guys. Seeing the men that have felony convictions, arrest records, are on offender registries and using fake names to play women keeps us all safe. I only wish bad guys that travel to run their scams or solicit new prey could be posted nationwide like the Facebook groups have.

by VaN8v

I’m glad Tea exists. Dating is dangerous for women and we need every tool we can get to ensure our safety.

For the guys trashing and downrating Tea because they don’t like getting called out and reported for bad behavior: do better. Women can give positive reviews of men on this site too: earn it!

by Priyaanvada

Love the fact that Tea is made by women who post their true authentic experiences. It is very hard to publicly admit that one was cheated on , but thanks to creators of this app and the other women who are members and support each other, it’s proving to be very effective. this app needs to invest more on publicity and make themselves heard of.

by Cfont79

Either women are sharing with men or somehow the men have gained access.

Other than that I think it's working alright for a new app. The fact that screen shots are not allowed is great, as well as no shared information of the poster and no way to search for the poster.

Make sure those safety features stay in place.

by BookOhLissa

It’s not as hopping as the FB pages but has gotten updates and gets better and better. Just needs more users to help it along with doing the lords work.

I love seeing users starting conversations that seem healthy and helpful.

by FreyaF$

After posting, he came back to me completely a different man, wanted to finally be with me and work with me. I felt so guilty I deleted the posting. Then he did the worst things to me and it seemed like he was fishing for me to confess to this. He won’t stop trying to ruin me. I suspect a female friend found the post and shared it with him. It’s really unfortunate there are women that will put other women in danger just to show the monster she has his back so he will chose her. Disgusting people do disgusting things to secure their disgusting crush. Shame on those women. We endure enough from the bad men, why can’t we be there for each other? Who else will?

by Snugs925

I wish more women knew about Tea so they don’t get played for fools. Not all the women on here are jaded, some of them have found an emotionally intelligent partner who doesn’t cheat physically or emotionally and are just trying to help other women get to that same goal by making a good choice in their pick! Great for weeding out creeps and narcissists too!

by Tclarke6

Tea has a great concept just like the facebook groups everyone seems to know about now cause of the news and what not. The only issue will be preventing men or those from using Tea that it is not intended for. Tea has the ability of creating awareness in the dating community and protecting women and maybe others from predators or those that have ill intentions. It also is a platform for women to ask questions anonymously or for help from strangers where they may not usually have the ability to do it in normal day life with the people around them and creates a sense of comfortability.

by Dancing Ladybug

Tea is an important tool to help women warn each other about men that are dangerous. I was assaulted and had every thing I owned stolen from a clean cut, white color jobbed man that I met on an app a couple of years ago. My son said then that someone should create an app so women could warn each other about men like him. And now here it is. I hope that it continues ro grow and is used as a source to inform and protect women.

by SeeChelle77

In the dating world there are many men and women that have ill intentions. They have hurt others and these others are sharing their pain at the hands of matches they’ve made in the dating pool. Having a warning about an abuser or narcissist, or being encouraged by ladies who know of a man. who is a known good and kind person. It’s simply to avoid pain; physical, emotional, and mental. We need to stay safe and alert and not get hoodwinked by men who are seeking to abuse or use.

by Jamjamjamjamjsm

To men: let me ask you this: What is your #1 fear of what could happen to you if you went to prison? Yeah, that’s what I thought.

If you aren’t a predator and don’t have a guilty conscience, there is no reason for you to be threatened by Tea.

There are many men out there on 4,5,6 or more dating and sex apps that are using women under the promise of a relationship, or scamming them, abusing them and discarding them and moving on to the next. Tea is to help weed those guys out and green flag the safe ones.

by Fishing From Arizona

I have been single and dating for a few years now. online dating is not for me although there really is no other way to meet peoples these days… I was about to give up altogether however, I found this this app app.

It is not OK to play on someone’s emotions or trick them into doing what you want them to do for your own personal gain! and with Tea women can support one another and worn others against behaviors As such.
I would have to say it is the best I have downloaded in a very long time. Maybe I will stick to the online dating a little bit longer.

by Vegas_girl_2021

unfortunately Tea is useless because it’s allowing women to post false information about men with STD’s and when another user defends the man in question the user is banned. additionally another user suggested that I commit suicide and that user was allowed to remain in the this app community. great job on monitoring your users and keeping the community safe FOR EVERYONE.