Ourtime - Meet 50+ Singles Reviews

by Razorsarpeeee

Disappointed and Angry with Ourtime/site. Manny scammers posing as single women. Found many pictures of models and other inactive members being used. For example: I had an older profile from a few years back which it was brought to my attention it was actively being used by someone else!! Reported this and others, but NOTHING was done!! In addition, why asked when creating your profile the race, religion, age, and distance of those you want to meet when you get the people you should like they’re miles away even states away, plus the age and other preferences are no where near what you’ve asked for. Finally, what I was told is when you create a profile there’s no way to delete it!! Not very happy about that!!

Bottom line I do not recommend or will EVER use this site/app ever AGAIN.

by Cass Of Kensington

I put a profile on this website years ago, then left. I returned recently to find that apparently my profile had stayed up, though I had tried to disable it. Guys were still trying to contact me, though I hadn’t been on there for like three years! The poor guys!! Romance feels hopeless enough, without that added twist!!!

That and the fact that most of the people I contacted failed to respond, and showed absolutely no activity, says to me that once you put a profile on this site, it stays up forever, whether you are no longer active for years. Makes them look good, if they have a lot of profiles, but most of them are ghosts, who were gone long ago.

So do what I did, everybody: take off all your profile photos and put really dumb landscape photos in, and replace your writing with gobbledygook. Then nobody’s going to be writing to a ghost me! 😁😝😁

by E.G-C

I have not been able to log in to Ourtime for months, and because of this I will be deleting it! How long can an app remain down before tech support tends to an issue? Now the actual web site does not allow me to log in as well! I have phoned about it many times but to no avail, so I am done! Wasn’t great to begin with, same faces over and over again, so I am officially done with it for good.
When I started with Our Time I was given a one week free trial, but could not use because of log in issues, and I’m thinking it was just a gimmick to get me to create an account. Oddly enough, a male friend who is a subscriber has viewed my profile, which means they are using it to hook men, yet I cannot get in to remove my profile and be done with this scam site. Terrible!

by JenELane

I had lots of technical issues logging in. At least once a day I couldn’t log in. When I called customer service the first time, the woman was friendly but couldn’t help.
The next time, the rep sent me to the internet company. I called back & he told me it was my internet again. I explained the steps Time Warner did to prove it wasn’t the problem. He put me on hold without muting the phone. He had a personal conversation for about 12 minutes before coming saying he had to go back to this stupid customer. I explained I wasn’t stupid. He finally pulled up my account. He said “You are young. So you know about apps.” I confirmed. It wasn’t until then that he was willing to walk through the steps to figure out the issue. I was so furious. I deleted my account. I will never renew. Considering that most customers are older, I can’t believe this app would allow this person to continue working for the company.

by Dontuse This App Jack

I’m embarrassed to say but somehow after only a few hours (literally only 3 hours) after I paid for a month . Ourtime suddenly doesn’t work anymore for me. I’ve tried changing password and Ourtime will not let me access the site. I went old school and went online through my laptop and I can access the site but I can’t access my account and on top of that any person I click on their photo or profile I get a profile unavailable page. I didn’t break any guideline rules or anything. I don’t know how to get my money back it’s been over 24 hrs since I’ve paid for a membership and I’ve only had 3 hours of access. I talked to some nice people on the site but now it’s a ghost town. I feel cheated and embarrassed . What a waste of money and time.

by Bruntshvd

Just like match they don’t tighten things up enough for the women they have to make it mandatory that they want to look at pictures if they want to talk to people they have to be members. I don’t like the fact that even with my pictures that no one is getting back to me, and that’s most likely the sites problem that is not an issue of me not being seen it’s just there are so many members that are men in so few that are women the site itself makes it hard to meet. Women are always going to receive more responses than men therefore women should be only allowed five then when they go through those five they have to wait another seven days before they get another five to make it more competitive if I threw 100 pennies in front of you and say that five of those pennies are worth $1000 it’s gonna take your time to go through them all to find the one that’s got the marking of the date. And it’s the same way on match and our time and plenty of fish they’re all the same, they give too much flexibility to the women. And expect a man to pay for it

by Meow Meow Falk

Ourtime is the worst. It doesn’t save likes and after 48 hours my photo wasn’t even “approved”. Then it wouldn’t let me delete it because settings “are having problems” then it completely locked me out on Ourtime . I had to go to a desktop to log in. Then the one guy I liked page suddenly said. No user here. So I clicked on some other random photos and every single one said that with no photo anymore. So I guess my unapproved photo is trapped in limbo forever because I won’t even be trying to log back in again.

Edit lol oh sure I’ll email your support NO ONE IN OVER A YEAR HAS GOTTEN A SOLUTION FROM. nice try with the canned reply tho. I’ve left my profile up because it can’t be deleted but I removed my photo and left my review on my page. If I can’t delete my profile you are stuck with it.

by Cleversole

I downloaded Ourtime to see if there were members out there that I would be interested in and upgrading my service. I tried to upgrade, but on Ourtime itself you have to have a credit card on your iCloud account and I don’t have that. So I got online to do it and it cost five dollars more online. I contacted customer service multiple times, and continue to get only the scripted answers. I cannot get anyone to read my question and answer the questions that I’m asking. Why would I pay for the service going forward, when I can’t even get a simple answer to a question to upgrade my account? It concerns me that if I had issues in the future that I would get no help. I won’t waste my time with an app when I can’t even get questions to simply updating my account. I wouldn’t waste any time with that. But the members look interesting, you’ll have absolutely no help from customer service

by WAY1969

Purchased the 6 month subscription for the lower monthly charge. During the first month alone I was responsible for alerting the administration of 40 or more fraudulent accounts trying to communicate. The one live connection I had was very unhappy with the texting format as she said it was the worst she’s seen and stop using the site. I attempted to close my subscription at the end of one month and the representative claimed I could not get a prorated refund due to their written contract I agreed to by buying the subscription. They also claimed they cannot provide a secure site from said scammers. Don’t waste your money on a poorly designed site, extra work to separate the scammers from the real accounts, no support from customer service, and no refunds if you endure the same or other issues. Good luck with the search, but don’t do it here!

by Audrey Biloon

Every time anyone looks at another persons profile this site either through their staff or through algorithms sends a message to that person with a comment, such as, “I like your picture” or “I like your profile”… it’s very upsetting and especially dangerous for women (and could be for men too) to be starting a conversation that the person looking never intended.

I’ve written to the site to ask if this dangerous practice for women (without permission) be stopped but I haven’t heard anything back.

I like the amount of people on the site to choose from but I don’t like that problem doesn’t seem to be getting solved. The only way I have somewhat “solved” the problem is to write to each person that I didn’t write the primed message to, to tell each that it’s canned from the algorithms and that I’m doing my best to inform the site to stop it.

by Marsha1020

I would say don’t waste your money. The only way this site works halfway user-friendly is if you use the web version. Ourtime is very limited in functionality and hard to navigate. The settings are difficult to find if you want to hide your profile or unsubscribe. Roughly half of the profiles are fake accounts. Spent half my time reporting them. See the same profiles over & over in my Discover category. Half of the sent messages aren’t answered as the person is no longer subscribed - and you get to pay extra $ if you want them to see it. What a deal! Just let my subscription run out as it wasn’t possible to cancel and get a refund. You can go on the website to stop the auto renewals - you have to dig for it. Don’t fall into that trap! I’ve given up on virtual dating - too many scammers online now. Good luck

by Stick To The Real World

Decided to sign up after emails saying that I had five likes and four messages no such thing three likes in one message they pump all the stuff up to make you want to subscribe
Also none of the profile pictures that I uploaded were actually on my profile when I downloaded Ourtime for my phone when I downloaded Ourtime for my phone none of the information that I entered on the website transferred over to Ourtime so I went in and entered everything again still no luck so I called cancel when I cancel my subscription they said there’s been a block put on my accounts reason why I couldn’t do anything they didn’t know why there was a block on my account just that there was unusual activity so I canceled the subscription anyway and it still should’ve been good for another 3 1/2 weeks but it’s not can’t access the account without going to the subscribed screen not falling for that again
Nothing but a BS web sight
I seriously doubt that anybody ever finds up with a relationship from this website!

by Makinchanges

Been away from online dating for over 2 years and am back to try again. I like this app as a segmented population, but Ourtime and website are not good. Other platforms are much better. No private browsing or saving without a direct notification-feel safer on other sites due to private browsing for females. Limited profile info/character restrictions. Very little photo editing, photos upload sideways. Forces an immediate response to move to next match, even if very little info avail. If you are a paid member, others cannot respond unless they are a paid member or you pay an extra 8.99 per month so they can respond. What is the point in having a paid membership? So disappointed. Wish they would make some changes, just because we are over 50 doesn’t mean we don’t want good technology and flexibility.

by Giendi63

Ourtime itself is clunky and not easy to navigate. There’s no search engine to locate someone you have communicated before. So you have to manually go over the Sent section and scroll down.
The business model is to get the subscribers to add features beyond the paid membership. If you like someone and send them a message, but the receiver does not have the feature to reply to you then the whole match doesn’t happen unless you pay for them to have the ability to reply to your message. It’s may not be they don’t like you. You also have to pay additional for the feature to know that they opened your message. Again what good is to know there’s a possible match, but the other member cannot reply unless you pay for that feature too?
There’s no price transparency when you sign up. Do not recommend.

by Plgtfvjg

Garbage. Almost useless. Very limited use. You can search and send / receive a message. That’s it. All the messages are jumbled up together. Terrible user interface. Who wrote this garbage? The search options are not there either. Can’t search for non smokers. That’s a deal breaker for me. All I see are bad reviews going back as far as one cares to look. No changes. No help. No anything. Don’t waste your time and money. They are not making anything better. Same generic crap response to every unhappy user but nothing changes. I also think the site generates false interest to get you on the site or app. It’s fraud. It’s illegal. I get emails daily saying I have a message or a view or something. You login to see who or what it is and nothing is there. Where does it go? Once it’s in my messages how can it vanish? It can’t. It was never there. Not only is the site full of fakes and scammers the people who run the site create false interest.

by Wanda D Bradford

Hello. The this app site seems dated. I’ve been on other site and when I do a comparison from those sites to this one; some key essential steps, I believe are missing. For example, I noticed that if I ‘pass’ on a photo - I’ll see that photo pop up again in my views. Another suggestion is there should be a ‘filter preference’ that really works; meaning when I set up the profile with a preference for ‘black’ companions - I still ended up with a mass majority of ‘Caucasian’ suitors (no shade against the Caucasian guys because I do like them as well) but my preference and first choice was ‘black’. Also there should be some sort of filter that allows you to select preferences with ‘smokers’ and ‘non-smokers’.

Just a few updates that I think could improve the site.

by Uisgusted

I am very disappointed with this app. I am not up to how to use this dating service it is my first time. I got on the UK site and got that canceled. All the people who you send me are from all over the USA. I am looking for someone who lives in my area. I found one who messaged back he was seeing some. The second said he was looking for someone thinner. One guy was 88 years old and lives in Ohio with his daughter and doesn’t drive. I don’t know how much I have paid for but I have had enough. Some time in order to send a message I am asked for more money. No thanks. This experience has me feeling like I am not worth having a special relationship with anyone. Please call me on the phone and help me out. thank you but I am not holding my breath for help. What ever time I paid will be all I want so I need to know when my time is up.

by Little Salsera

I’m only joining for 30 days I met a man im interested in I had given up on online dating then I saw this gentleman an said what the heck. I’ll try it again. I happy with my decision. My last experience with this site was not a good one and the men that I met were not quality men they were men that were looking for someone to take care of them and I am not in that position nor do I want to be but otherwise it’s a good site I recommend it ladies put everything that you are looking for put your boundary lines make sure that you say what you will and will not do and just be truthful and you’ll meet someone.

by Dennisj47

I got this notice when I tried to read a message saying my account was suspended there was a phone number so I called and got a CSR and said that I needed to renew and explain the message. So I gave him my CC number he told me the message would remain for 24-48 hours but I could use the account. Unfortunately for me he applied my payment to my free account. Which is blank instead of my profiled account.
So far I have emailed them 3 or 4 times and they keep asking me what I needed when I’ve explained my problem in every email/text respondent one was Jamie and she explained what to do ignoring the fact the I would need to pay again,
Respondent 2 was James, he did d give a Monday thru Friday phone number and I was able to respond to his but haven’t heard back.

by Aniko Connor

Hi 🙋🏼‍♀️ I am just so happy that I finally got to be accepted into this wonderful place and I’m excited about the people that I got to read a lot about!& I feel blessed that this site is so true and sweet!,& I even think I have felt a lot more positive peaceful LOVE 💕 that I’m really searching to find and my special mate(belated Prince Charming), from the beginning of the gorgeous fairy-tails I grew up with!, yet, hit a huge mistake on my path,& fell off, but, I’m a miracle to be ALIVE and looking forward to actually find my new favorite one!! Thanks 🙏🏼, stay safe and love always-Anikó💋🙏🏼👄!!

by Stevebarney86

Hello, I figured anytime I sign up to your site my pictures never stop pending, I thought it was because I don’t make payments but now that I have just subscribed for your one month contract it’s still the same, what’s going on? How long is it gonna take for your security team to approve my profile ? Do you guys just reap people off their money and never give them what they pay for ? I called few hours ago to know what’s going on but they could not give a specific reason on why they will not activate my account, this is just not cool at all. If you are not going to activate my account then you can as well send my refund.

by MM9W

Ourtime is not in sync with browser version which is very annoying. One month ago I paid for a 6 month subscription and starting yesterday Ourtime displays with minimal information about myself and others. I do get an option to subscribe to see more, but I have already paid. I have to assume that if I can only see minimal information then others can see only minimal information about me. An email to customer service just empathized with me. Very sorry I spent any money on a subscription which I can’t seem to easily use. I am in my 50s and use my phone/apps for everything.

by Officer Hotness

They force me to upload three photos and answer lame irrelevant questions but then when I’m scrolling through profiles I see that others have just one photo and they have written freeform bits about themselves. Are they paying for those options? IDK and at this point I don’t care. Too frustrating to use this. There’s no way to say what I’m looking for or what is important to me. I can’t even delete my profile or update my location. My name was spelled wrong from typing on phone with no way to correct it. I could go on and on but I’m just deleting Ourtime and moving on.

by Reba621

Whatever you did with the latest update completely ruined Ourtime ! If I go to a profile from a message then expand one of the tiles I can’t go back to the main profile page. I have to go back to the message and then go back into the profile. I can’t view my flirts in Ourtime . The Discover section tells me I have new messages but when I go to the inbox there are no new messages there. If I try to manage my subscription in Ourtime it takes me to Ourtime Store! I’m not trying to manage the application I want to check my subscription with you! If you have an app make it functional so I don’t have to use the website.

by Jamntexas

Very disappointing app! Ourtime charges more $$$ than others, with much less functionality and options than most. No option to delete your profile when you want to discontinue Ourtime . Profile description options are inadequate and do not allow the user to adequately describe themselves. Inadequate narrative or about me section to properly describe yourself and what you are looking for, especially on the male user profile and not much better on the female profiles. Much better options are available and for much less. The fact that the user can’t choose to delete or unpublished their profile is very concerning, much less the quality of Ourtime . The TV advertising appears to be misleading as well.

by 13216locust

I’m new to this site. I’ve found it a mess to manage. I searched for “instructions/rules” so to speak, so that I could delete those who do not match with my preferences. I’ve found the three dots on the right side of the page. However, when I click on the trash symbol the entry remains. Also, when I get notified that I’ve got new messages or likes - it’s difficult to find them. I feel old entries should be deleted and new ones should be highlighted or separated to denote they are new and haven’t been opened or read. Please, if I’ve missed a tutorial page or instructions I’d appreciate it if you would guide me to that area. Thank you!

by Robmp

I tried this site for one month. I wasn’t happy with the opportunities to choose from. There is no place to email for help or guidance. I called to delete my profile because you can’t do it on your own page,but no one no one answers the phone.
I was on hold three separate times today for over 15 mins each, and no one picked up. Frustrating because you cannot delete your own information when you want it off the site :/

by Rocker Dad12

There are too many fakes, people send likes from 3 states away and further. No pics ( what real woman doesn’t have at least 10 profile pics?) I sent 2 emails because I was having difficulties after paying $73 for a 3 month subscription, but no reply . Don’t waste your energy. Women put random numbers in their profile questions so they don’t have to pay . I joined because I thought it would be a mature site, not like the others. I will NOT be paying for an additional 3 months!

by Buttnotlet Go

E mails delivered by our time can’t really be accessed because you can’t log in to see the person they say likes your profile. Wishing I hadn’t wasted my money and have already cancelled my subscription. Another reason is you have to read there profile questions or tap on the writers words to see their picture. A big waste of time going back and forth to finally see someone you wouldn’t be compatible with.

by Kls01013

It is so different from the actual website. I would like to remove matches that keep popping up. Is there a way to do that without blocking a person?

I’m not a big fan of the website either. I feel should be able to see all the matches instead of having to give a thumbs up or down to see what I might like to correspond with.

by Elm3544

I use the site daily. Ourtime doesn’t update to reflect a proper timeline. It will show replies being sent 1 minute ago when in reality it’s been a day or more. It also shows I have unread messages I have already read. I usually have to delete Ourtime and reload it or go onto the site another way instead of through Ourtime . Other than this it’s fine.