Tophy - Match,Chat,Dating Reviews

by Cheft1969

Getting notifications about someone viewed/liked your profile and sends you a message. I am fine with that but when I look at their profile we aren’t sharing what we are looking for. Respond back to the initial message stating what I am looking for then they reply let’s talk on google chat or iMessage. I say no thank you and they persist.

You should add a filter for people who want to chat, looking for relationships and toy control to hopefully that will slow down the bots and scammers. I also agree with getting some kind of verification especially when it relates to toy control so others know you are legit.

by Dr Wilyam

There’s no verification system like other dating apps and so it’s filled to the brim with bots and scammers who want you to text them on google chat or another app and then ask for “tribute” or some other word for payment. like everyone else said, great concept but it’s destroyed because of no moderation or verification process. such a shame that a great concept for a dating app sort of thing is ruined by no moderation.

by Butwholewiper

App is a garbage truck loaded to the brim and set on fire do not install. It is filled with bots and scammers(pretty much same thing since the bots are scamming you) 5% of users are real and won’t reply to you other 95% want “tribute” or cash app or some other stupid payment system. Thank you now install at your own risk.

by J Lyn Ae

Ughhhhhh was mid match and said my toy needed charged and boom permanently banned from logging on! Wth!! I spent alot of time and energy cultivating relationships with ppl and now its all gone and I Cant even discuss this with the developers to have this mistake fixed!!!!! There are girls all over that site soliciting but here I am I dont even sell content and I cant get on my app! Grrrrrrrr

by Chuck_LM

I’ve submitted reports on accounts where someone is clearly using the same photos for 3-5 different accounts. Everyone on Tophy asks you to move off Tophy to talk, SCAM! Almost all guys (like every other dating app), and most of the time it’s just people lying about their gender or identity so they can fool the person on the other side. So much is wrong and greasy about Tophy and how the company runs it. Won’t be surprised if lawsuits happen. Avoid at all costs!

by @nGe1H

By god the amount of pornstars being impersonated is really funny, I mean it’s like more than 75% of the profiles. I’ve seen so many apps eventually fall to this, and then eventually fall because of it. Add some kinda of work around this otherwise this is useless, and very annoying to even deal with. Please otherwise this wouldn’t be so bad.

I mean the only reason I would choose this is to find someone with a Lovense toy, but otherwise Tophy fails at being a dating app.

by Jackenstines

Like many apps that are dating related they are hit or miss. this app is a BIG miss! When it was first released everything was ok it bit on the clunky site of apps IMO but it was fairly decent for it intended purpose. Now that is been out for a few weeks…well the amount of Pay to Play and bots….really killed Tophy for me. Things the developers can do. 1. Make it a paid app. Sorry, but you want slow down the amount of bots and pay to play. That is how you do it. 2. Make a a verified check. By doing this you can tell who is real and who is fake. Hopefully it will get fixed in the future.

by Mr.Big610

The new update deleted all my messages and connects. I was logged out and then when I logged back in my profile was deleted as well. Tophy was already full of scammers and people asking for money. So how they made it worse.

by HonestyKink

This idea would be an amazing add on to something like WhatsApp or okCupid, but the current app is not good. A lot of bots that will ask you for money. The worst thing about it is that I got flagged for reporting these bots. Saying the words “I do not pay” is apparently against the guidelines here. I hope they figure it out 🙏

by RHRN505

Most of the profiles on this website are fraudulent, or fake. People are using these pictures claiming that they are the person in the photo. This site is extremely misleading, and is based on trying to scam you for money, phones, gift cards, etc. I communicated with three separate women, all of whom claimed they were the person in the photo, when really they turned out to be from a foreign country, it could not speak English. Google translator, it certainly can work wonders for these people. If you have any sense at all, you will stay away from this terrible site.

by Rjb82-Ryan

Why would you remove the only EASY way to refresh for anonymous links? You could hit the button at the bottom and it would refresh. Now you have to swipe down constantly or hit the filter buttons to refresh. Adding an extra step or doing the same repetitive motion of swiping. This makes Tophy harder to use. Rather than tapping the singular button to refresh. It’s hard enough getting a link due to the speed required. Now it’s next to impossible. I prefer the random encounters.

by Milameels

Tophy was great at first then all of a sudden, my chats disappeared and I can no longer see who has visited me. I had really good conversations with people that now I can’t find 😭

by That One Guy, Over There.

Ok, I tried Tophy for 3 weeks. The amount of bots makes old school yahoo chat to shame. Need to find some way of weeding out the bots or sellers.

by Trophyuser

Women profiles are littered with fakes. You will see the same person in as many as 10 profiles. Many of the profile pics are fakes taken from the web, many being celebrities or porn stars. Most women want to take you to an alternate app to hustle you for money. The site creator should do a better job of filtering users. The site does have some innovative features, but member management needs improvement. It’s so bad that you can see the same person, same profile pics on 10 or more profiles. Many of the women use men names, like Albert. When ask about their name, they will change it. Totally fake accounts!

by XEROBURN

Plenty of bots looking for money. Glad I left.

by Prunkzter

Tophy is pro women ( which isn’t bad ) but it’s fully ignoring any other gender in order to progress / evolve. This means only allowing women / female accounts Exclusive privileges like feedback that’s actually acknowledged, or the right to charge Customers (yes customers) because Tophy may be free but you’ll be expected to spend anywhere from free to 10$+ per min! To use Tophy for toy control.

by Kal1014

I was only able to use Tophy for a few days before my account was flagged and I was banned without warning. I can no longer communicate with the people I had made connections with and I can’t create a new account because my toy is linked to the first blocked account. A terrible app and no support to help.

by Egg326

i dont why i cannot ues in china?

by Just Mr. Grinch

Aside from getting propositioned for gift cards in exchange to interactions, Tophy is about as useless as they come. I’m surprised Lovense still lists it on their site. I’ve watched Tophy degrade into a transphobic mess with no moderation on the part of the devs. Their answer is to just remove the general chat feature. They do nothing to remove scammers. If I could give negative starts I would.

by Nephilim87

In the vibe area recently it has started to give connection time out when connecting with vibers to control toys. I close app and it still happens, outside of uninstalling I don’t know how to fix the issue.

by Clark.john1

Tophy is exclusively bots and girls selling content. There’s no chatting with people. Great idea for an app but no moderation at all. Literally not one real person on Tophy just the bots and corn stars

by 42Towels

Pretty much nobody on Tophy will respond to messages. Rather disappointing.

by Stas.Berkov

Looks like servers are overloaded.

by D42023

Great concept but the amount on BOTS, P2P, & posting restrictions kills it

by Darktechman

Relatively new member and was really enjoying Tophy and the use of the interactive toys until they updated Tophy and interface. Now I find it harder to use and find people I want to vibe with. Change it back!

by Madler1013

But lots of spam account wanting $$. I’ve had fun with some nice ppl though

by Nydreamerbm

This can be an incredibly fun app but the fake/real profiles needs to be checked especially during the Vibe now

by Eank

The community standards need to be reworked or revised. Got a flag cause I said “ I let it charge a little bit and put on some patters.”

by I’m Zelenskiy

Too much scam accounts please fix it

by Mav640

Tophy is okay.

I like the ability to control another toy at random, but when you are able to take control, the chat can freeze up and then Tophy crashes. If you are able to keep talking, you need to type in shorthand as the keyboard disappears and you have to reengage it.

It would be nice that if you get control in the this app app that it shows up in the Lovense app; that seems to be more stable for conversation. If you create a link and share it to this app, you as the one being controlled can chat in the Lovense app and also control the other toy (of the one controlling you) if they have one active. I don’t see any issues when conversing with the one controlling my toy in the Lovense app.

by Bufford's Friend

Too many fake profiles

by Jayna2019

I love Tophy. The toy function and being able to connect with people is amazing. The moments feature is lackluster tho. I feel as an app that allows you to connect with toys their rules on moments posts are too strict. I understand not wanting full nudity but even when trying to post a pic in which one is wearing a crop top and pants you potentially get notified its banned content and cannot post.

by Jjsalna

Update that just recently came out.
No more vibe park like it used to be. I’m not sure why they got rid of having your toy available on vibe park for people to request to control for 5 min without having to previously talk and match.

Being back the old vibe park.

by Ntwrk80

Needs better gatekeeping. Too much spam and scammers.

by La CostaVida

Tophy does allow you to connect to a widespread variety of people based off compatibility or your own search amongst users. You can unlock features within the chats ( voice,video,etc.) by how frequent both parties are communicating.i like that you can set moments to only an audience of your choice or public. You do get flagged on profile or moments’ pics for things that are not even in appropriate. Toy control is easy to use and you can set duration when playing with someone new. Only downer is that it does not have the option to control multiple toys at once like the lovense app nor have I been able to send a video within a convo by using the camera in chat. You have to do it in your phone camera app then send. Overall not a bad app to connect or play.

by SilveryF0xx

Needs a better way to distinguish between people trying to sell a page/cam versus actual people

by Xxc×7

Wow, this app makes it a breeze to find fellow toy fans! You can easily meet loads of new pals on Tophy 's moment plaza. It's like a secret club for toy lovers and folks who love making new buddies!

by Bing Ma

The toy control functionality is the highlight of Tophy , and I had the pleasure of controlling the vibration toys while connecting with people. They also offer a wide variety of toys to control and provide demo trials to show how they work. Additionally, there are no hidden fees for initiating conversations and interacting with new people.

Tophy is completely changing the landscape of both the matching app market and the sex toy market. It seamlessly combines the community aspect with the ability to remotely control toys to women who are not only seeking a toy remote controller but also meaningful connections and relationships.

by Cammiecd

Wish I could share nsfw pics on my profile

by SmittyRedcard

Like many people, I downloaded Tophy because it was advertised in the Lovense app. That is the only reason I downloaded it. I was actually surprised when I started seeing people who were looking for dating or chatting in Tophy that is so heavily marketed toward toy control. The number of people on Tophy who immediately want to go to another platform drives me berserk. I have put in my profile that they will immediately be blocked if toy control is not the reason they are there. This, of course, does not affect scammers, because they never read the profiles. So now I just block them as soon as I see their profile setting. I really appreciate the reporting aspect. I’ve had sessions where my toy starts going, we get to the point where I’m expecting them to share their control info, and instead it’s a request for money. I tell them this is against ToS, which gets various responses, but never a “oh, I didn’t know, let’s play!” I screenshot it, go to report, ask them if there’s no other option to play, and report, then block. Also, every person who wants to switch apps gets blocked if they persist. The developer could easily block words like snap, telegram or tgram, cashapp, google chat, PayPal,etc. This would curtail it somewhat pretty quickly. I told the first person who asked for payment “Asking for money is against the ToS” and got flagged for using “money” in chat! So blocking keywords works somewhat. They just need to change what the filters are scanning for. But the first time I actually connected with someone and controlled their toy and we video chatted while sexting, I was stunned with how clean the interface was, with the controls and video on the same screen. Just amazing!! I’d pay for Tophy in a heartbeat, just to have the scammers and bots removed, it’s that much better than the stock Lovense app!!!

One last interface change that would help. The badge icon for Toy Verified and just regular Verified needs to be different. When you’re chatting with someone and that badge is up in theheader, you can’t tell if they have a toy certificate or not. The badges are the same shape, color, and location, so until you tap and read the off white letters on the silver background, you don’t know. Make them drastically and unmistakably different, since they mean very different things!

by Lisa Robert

Thank you this app

by Dominatrix Jasmine

Excellent