Tophy - Match,Chat,Dating Reviews

The toy control functionality is the highlight of Tophy , and I had the pleasure of controlling the vibration toys while connecting with people. They also offer a wide variety of toys to control and provide demo trials to show how they work. Additionally, there are no hidden fees for initiating conversations and interacting with new people.

Tophy is completely changing the landscape of both the matching app market and the sex toy market. It seamlessly combines the community aspect with the ability to remotely control toys to women who are not only seeking a toy remote controller but also meaningful connections and relationships.

Like many apps that are dating related they are hit or miss. this app is a BIG miss! When it was first released everything was ok it bit on the clunky site of apps IMO but it was fairly decent for it intended purpose. Now that is been out for a few weeks…well the amount of Pay to Play and bots….really killed Tophy for me. Things the developers can do. 1. Make it a paid app. Sorry, but you want slow down the amount of bots and pay to play. That is how you do it. 2. Make a a verified check. By doing this you can tell who is real and who is fake. Hopefully it will get fixed in the future.

App is a garbage truck loaded to the brim and set on fire do not install. It is filled with bots and scammers(pretty much same thing since the bots are scamming you) 5% of users are real and won’t reply to you other 95% want “tribute” or cash app or some other stupid payment system. Thank you now install at your own risk.

This idea would be an amazing add on to something like WhatsApp or okCupid, but the current app is not good. A lot of bots that will ask you for money. The worst thing about it is that I got flagged for reporting these bots. Saying the words “I do not pay” is apparently against the guidelines here. I hope they figure it out 🙏

Tophy is exclusively bots and girls selling content. There’s no chatting with people. Great idea for an app but no moderation at all. Literally not one real person on Tophy just the bots and corn stars

Tophy was great at first then all of a sudden, my chats disappeared and I can no longer see who has visited me. I had really good conversations with people that now I can’t find 😭

Pretty much nobody on Tophy will respond to messages. Rather disappointing.

Looks like servers are overloaded.

Plenty of bots looking for money. Glad I left.

There’s no verification system like other dating apps and so it’s filled to the brim with bots and scammers who want you to text them on google chat or another app and then ask for “tribute” or some other word for payment. like everyone else said, great concept but it’s destroyed because of no moderation or verification process. such a shame that a great concept for a dating app sort of thing is ruined by no moderation.

Too much scam accounts please fix it

Great concept but the amount on BOTS, P2P, & posting restrictions kills it

In the vibe area recently it has started to give connection time out when connecting with vibers to control toys. I close app and it still happens, outside of uninstalling I don’t know how to fix the issue.

Ok, I tried Tophy for 3 weeks. The amount of bots makes old school yahoo chat to shame. Need to find some way of weeding out the bots or sellers.

Ughhhhhh was mid match and said my toy needed charged and boom permanently banned from logging on! Wth!! I spent alot of time and energy cultivating relationships with ppl and now its all gone and I Cant even discuss this with the developers to have this mistake fixed!!!!! There are girls all over that site soliciting but here I am I dont even sell content and I cant get on my app! Grrrrrrrr

This can be an incredibly fun app but the fake/real profiles needs to be checked especially during the Vibe now

The community standards need to be reworked or revised. Got a flag cause I said “ I let it charge a little bit and put on some patters.”

Thank you this app

Needs better gatekeeping. Too much spam and scammers.

i dont why i cannot ues in china?

Excellent

I’ve submitted reports on accounts where someone is clearly using the same photos for 3-5 different accounts. Everyone on Tophy asks you to move off Tophy to talk, SCAM! Almost all guys (like every other dating app), and most of the time it’s just people lying about their gender or identity so they can fool the person on the other side. So much is wrong and greasy about Tophy and how the company runs it. Won’t be surprised if lawsuits happen. Avoid at all costs!

Getting notifications about someone viewed/liked your profile and sends you a message. I am fine with that but when I look at their profile we aren’t sharing what we are looking for. Respond back to the initial message stating what I am looking for then they reply let’s talk on google chat or iMessage. I say no thank you and they persist.

You should add a filter for people who want to chat, looking for relationships and toy control to hopefully that will slow down the bots and scammers. I also agree with getting some kind of verification especially when it relates to toy control so others know you are legit.

Wow, this app makes it a breeze to find fellow toy fans! You can easily meet loads of new pals on Tophy 's moment plaza. It's like a secret club for toy lovers and folks who love making new buddies!

Wish I could share nsfw pics on my profile

Too many fake profiles

Tophy does allow you to connect to a widespread variety of people based off compatibility or your own search amongst users. You can unlock features within the chats ( voice,video,etc.) by how frequent both parties are communicating.i like that you can set moments to only an audience of your choice or public. You do get flagged on profile or moments’ pics for things that are not even in appropriate. Toy control is easy to use and you can set duration when playing with someone new. Only downer is that it does not have the option to control multiple toys at once like the lovense app nor have I been able to send a video within a convo by using the camera in chat. You have to do it in your phone camera app then send. Overall not a bad app to connect or play.

By god the amount of pornstars being impersonated is really funny, I mean it’s like more than 75% of the profiles. I’ve seen so many apps eventually fall to this, and then eventually fall because of it. Add some kinda of work around this otherwise this is useless, and very annoying to even deal with. Please otherwise this wouldn’t be so bad.

I mean the only reason I would choose this is to find someone with a Lovense toy, but otherwise Tophy fails at being a dating app.

The new update deleted all my messages and connects. I was logged out and then when I logged back in my profile was deleted as well. Tophy was already full of scammers and people asking for money. So how they made it worse.

But lots of spam account wanting $$. I’ve had fun with some nice ppl though

I love Tophy. The toy function and being able to connect with people is amazing. The moments feature is lackluster tho. I feel as an app that allows you to connect with toys their rules on moments posts are too strict. I understand not wanting full nudity but even when trying to post a pic in which one is wearing a crop top and pants you potentially get notified its banned content and cannot post.