Flingster has the perfect system for starting a conversation. Since you can like (and comment, if you want!) on a specific part of a profile, there's less pressure to decide you like a whole person, and you have something to talk about if you match. Obviously, after that it's going to be up to you. My current match had a “two truths and a lie” that our conversation started off with discussing. I've had UpVideoChat less than a week, and already deleted it, as they promised. If the second date doesn't work out, or if in the future I ever need a dating app again, this will be the only one I download.