Positive Singles®: Herpes Date Reviews

Positive Singles Reviews

Published by on 2026-05-12

🏷️ About: PositiveSingles® has been catering to singles with STDs for over 24 years. Over 2.


       


Overall Customer Experience 😎


🤬 Negative experience
66.7%

😎 Positive experience
33.3%

🫥 Neutral
0.0%

~ from Justuseapp.com NLP analysis of 7,126 combined software reviews.

Is Positive Singles Safe?
Positive Singles®: Herpes Date appears generally safe, but use with caution.
33.3/100

  Safety Analysis »»

Is Positive Singles Legit?
Positive Singles®: Herpes Date appears legitimate, though exercise caution.
33.3/100



Read 20 Customer Service Reviews 😠💢

4.3 out of 5
WARNING: App users not allowed to message one another after matching!!! (Premium Members Only)

Only paying users may message their matches!! $40 for one month access, $70 for 3 months, and $110 for 6 months of premium access! PositiveSingles is poorly maintained for you to take advantage of users in such a manner. Numerous bugs exist in the mobile app… namely the bug with user profiles appearing to be hidden at first glance (this includes users that have already matched). However, upon refreshing their profile (often numerous times), the profile data suddenly appears as it should. PS takes advantage of those who suffer social stigmas due to their medical conditions, and doesn’t even allow users to message one another freely. I predict PositiveSingles will be dead soon once a suitable replacement hits the market.

Suspended Account

I created a account, uploaded picture, and did the video verification. I browsed some profiles for a few minutes and closed PositiveSingles . I tried to open PositiveSingles the next day and it says my account is suspended and it says to contact support. I sent support a email and I haven’t heard back from anyone in days. It’s really suspicious.

Update: I received a response from Positive Singles Support. I was told there was some unusual activity on my account and that they strictly prohibited scammers from PositiveSingles . I asked for clarification on what specifically was “unusual activity” and how can I reactivate my account. Once again Positive Single support said there was unusual activity but did not specify what was unusual with my activity. Next, I was asked to provide a copy of my drivers license or passport along with my username/email address to verify my account. Now, why have users upload a recorded video of yourself just to be told to give your drivers license or passport for account verification. That’s seems like unnecessary information harvesting. And that’s exactly what I told Positive Single support. The representative that was helping me said, “We are sorry that we cannot unblock your account if you do not plan to verify my account.

Boring and money grab

PositiveSingles is extremely boring, nobody talks on there they will look at your profile 20times without saying a word then have the balls to ask for $30+ for a membership just to be ignored and stared at. PositiveSingles isn’t for anything other than a place for ppl to show off and be in denial with people make money of some peoples poor situation. I understand money is required to keep something up and and running but I’m not paying 30 dam dollars to be left on seen, ignored, and looked at. That’s ridiculous and robbing. They will say “we have free features like replying back to messages!” These stupid people really think women send messages first? And again NOBODY TALKS ON THERE! Not even the stupid people that wasted money on the premium talk! Avoid PositiveSingles just take your chances out in the dam world. Nothing on PositiveSingles in the 2 yrs I been on it has helped, or gotten me anywhere I’m still a lone to this day. A lot of the reviews on here are fake so please just avoid PositiveSingles. It causes more mental misery than good. It’s sad when others like you won’t even talk or give others a chance

This is a dead app

By reading the fake and/or paid reviews on here, this seems like a great app lol. Geesh... PositiveSingles is a pay to play app. They want you to pay too dollar to be able to talk to other users but they DO NOT give this any maintenance. In order to quick swipe with other users you NEED a profile pic. No problem, 95% of profile pictures are of random objects (real examples; a chair, a plate of food, a door, a cat, plenty of memes, feet, a closet, a broom, a car, a hair brush and too many too recall) and pictures like this get approved. BUT if you add an Instagram or Twitter name in the bio, it gets quickly deleted... lol, PositiveSingles was obviously made to take money of of those with unfortunate stigmas. The developers knew exactly what they were going for when PositiveSingles was made. And for some stupid reason, PositiveSingles will sign you off every single week yet keep sending you notifications...

Scam

I used PS off and on for years. It felt like my only option due to my situation. They let you know what they value in the beginning considering you can’t send a message unless you pay a premium, and whether you pay it or not, unless you are white your profile won’t get much exposure by the site or will be suspended or out right deleted based off unsubstantiated heresay. But what I found to be most disturbing is the fact PS uses the pics of past members to create fake profiles to give off the illusion there are a lot of potential connections. The last time I used the site there was a fake page using the pics of a woman serving in the military. Many times the page was reported and another would sprout up using the same pics. So either PS is responsible or are simply ignoring the fraudulent pages. At best this sight is misleading, at its worse, predatory. Don’t waste your time or emotional energy. There is also a sister site called MPWH. Basically the same scam artist site with a different color scheme. It’s also a trap.

Functions

App is pretty bad when it comes to functions. You have to repetitively force close and reopen to use most features or force close when it freezes. You can’t message people on PositiveSingles unless you or them pay for the service. The service is approx $35 a month and the perks given are not useful. They won’t allow people to share other social medias to communicate if you don’t have premium in your profile. But doesn’t stop or filter the creeps from sending unsolicited messages or pictures. Even with the premium and as much as you are paying, it isn’t worth the very few little perks gained with premium. I’ve been trying to meet people with similar contions for friendships to have to talk to and can’t even do that. PositiveSingles is truly just a money grabber and waste of time honestly. People won’t share their face because of the “stigmas” and are too scared. I’ve had a poor experience using PositiveSingles .

Sad

I do not like PositiveSingles and looks like all of the apps for people that are positive for stds don’t allow you to even get an message if you or the other person is not a premium member. I was told by support to just pay for the premium so I can get more action but most dating sites at least allow the initial conversation so you might be able to set up a date. All this site lets you do is window shop never get to try on the merchandise. We get enough rejection on our own but we come to this site because it’s supposed to be a safe place for us and it doesn’t even help us it just sends us on a wild goose chase. It’s not worth it to me except the drift bottles. We can have whole conversations there but most of them aren’t local at all. I am unhappy with this site and won’t sign up for any other positive sites since they work the same way. I’ll stick to all the other ones and the ultimate judgement.

Creators of PS

For the people that created PS I really think you should rethink what the subscription is. we shouldn’t have to pay just to talk to people. Why can’t y’all be like every other dating site where we can talk to anybody we want to. Now if we wanted to for example see who liked us back, or cast the drifting bottle, or Making the first move or advance search sure those I agree you should probably have the subscription. But just being able to talk to somebody, we should not have to pay $30-$110 . It’s almost like you want us to stay Vulnerable so that we have to buy your subscription. and from viewing almost all of your comments, I would’ve expected y’all to make the difference to your actual app where it was more user-friendly than a greedy scam . I really think y’all would be a lot more successful with your app if you actually listen to the people that are on it. take their advice, or at least lower the subscription, where it’s reasonable for anybody in any type of situation (because we do live in a time of Inflation and everybody is paying more for less ) be able to use your app. But I’m sure all y’all see are the dollar signs which is quite sad because your app really did have potential.

They empower predatory behavior.

Racism is everywhere and I get that, but they (positive singles aka ps) allow far too much to slide. I get notifications and emails that someone is visiting my profile 5+ times per week (you can only block hidden profiles if you pay a huge fee for premium) but they allow this person to anonymously do so. I get men wishing wishing violence on me and leaving harassing comments and messages. Someone with premium is anonymously visiting repeatedly (aka stalking) and I can’t afford premium, so I can’t afford to see who and block them. I have reached out to the site’s support staff numerous times, but they will not resolve this as I don’t have their ransome to get premium status. I tried creating a blog/post asking others if they are experiencing similair harassment, but the support staff took it down.
It is nice to have a sense of normalcy and community post ob, but be prepared to deal with bitter men throwing their weight around with PS’s blessing. They empower predatory behavior.

Scam!!!!!!

When I found PositiveSingles I thought finally I’ll have better luck with dating, making friends and having support…..WRONG!!!!!

PositiveSingles has to be a scam. What type of dating site/app makes you pay to talk to someone you matched with?? I thought that was the whole point match with someone and advance forward….nope. The subscription options are terrible because who wants to pay $30+ a month to talk to someone😐😐other dating sites such as Taimi, HER ect aren’t that expensive so why is PositiveSingles asking for a kidney liver and a soul.

I’m honestly surprised people pay and have kept PositiveSingles a float. It doesn’t feel genuine at all. Bringing a bunch of people who are faced with similar challenges who want to find companionship etc and charge them a arm and leg feels wrong. PositiveSingles, I thought was suppose to help people and make them feels better but instead it makes some folks feel worse because it’s a “oh you pay just to talk to people who can relate to you or don’t pay and be stuck in a normal world where people don’t accept you” and that’s really hurtful and sad.

DO BETTER DEVELOPMENT TEAM!!! BECAUSE NO DATING APP OF ANY KIND SHOULD BE THIS DUMB AND EXPENSIVE (claiming it’s to maintain and improve service) IMPROVING SERVICE WOULD BE TO LOWER THE COST AND MAKE IT EASIER FOR EVERYONE CAUSE $30 LITERALLY DETERMINES IF SOMEONE EATS OR GOES HUNGRY AGAIN

Hard to tell if the developers are being honest

Before I downloaded, I looked at the reviews, mostly the negative ones. Most of them were consistent over the years saying that members have to pay just to respond to messages that were sent to them.

The developer consistently responded saying "standard members can respond to emails and messages for free...". I figured this was pretty standard and if so, still worth a try.

I've been on PositiveSingles maybe 10 hours, and I got a message from another member. I read their profile and decided to like them back. That's when I got the first prompt to pay for a sub. No biggie, they said it's free to respond so I'll just do that. Type up my response and click "send", them boom. Blocked by the subscription sign-ups.

So I'm asking for transparency. Why respond to reviews saying that responding is free when it's not? Why isn't what you specifically can and can't do for free explicitly spelled out in PositiveSingles ? I've seen the developer say that the fees cover the maintenance of quality for PositiveSingles , but that is something that needs to be spelled out with crystal clarity for members. What is offered currently feels like a major bait and switch.

I can afford a membership, but in my short experience it doesn't feel like it would be worth it to invest in an app that doesn't cover the basics well or is honest with their members.

Great concept poor execution

I love the concept of PositiveSingles but some features you have to have a subscription for should really be free. Like I should be able to filter out creepy old men without paying for it. I’m tired of getting messages from people I’m not interested in. If I didn’t match or like them, they should NOT be able to text me. I’m a young woman and I have tons of men in their 40-60s messaging me! I have to sort through all the messages just to find the people I actually want to talk to, it’s exhausting. I was hoping PositiveSingles would give me an exciting new way to find love without having to explain what I have, but PositiveSingles is just too frustrating. I should be able to set filters so that I only see people in my age range with what I have, but I can’t.

No message approval?

I really wish people didn’t have the ability to message whoever they want. I have to sort through 100 messages from people I literally have zero interest in and half of them have no picture saying really creepy things that make me feel uncomfortable . And No, I won’t approve your private photo album request.

Why are these things free access to everyone?? This should only be allowed when there is mutual interest shown. It’s a waste of time to go through the messages and honestly just too creepy for me. It feels too unsolicited and crossing my boundary.

Besides that, the dating pool of the people in the areas I’ve been have been slim to yuck. Originally wanted to hop on PositiveSingles hoping I could see the light on this situation but it honestly has now just made me feel even more hopeless.

Could be better

PositiveSingles is glitchy. Sometimes crashes when you click on certain profiles of people I’ve been chatting with, even when I know the profiles are still active. Sometimes you don’t get notifications. Half the time when you are swiping through profiles and you click into one, a different person’s profile that was a few swipes back comes up.
Also idk why they don’t make it where you have to match to chat. Numerous times I’ve started chatting with a girl and they tell me they’re getting harassed by a bunch of other guys and then they delete PositiveSingles . A lot of people are turned away because of this.
But the community on here is the best of any other similar app/it is the most widely used

Privacy

The site is fantastic. I love that it allows one to be hidden and do the same with photos for those who are not comfortable putting their face out there. The website version has one feature PositiveSingles needs…. When you add a video on the website you can make a video private as well. PositiveSingles doesn’t allow for that and should. If people want their photos private they most likely want the same for videos . So I have a private video on the website but it doesn’t transfer over to PositiveSingles . That stinks. Other than that I enjoy the site.

Than you PS to give me a new life

When I found I am positive, I feel very sad for a long time. In the past several years, I joined a lot of secret H groups and sites including positive singles dating site, and haven’t find my match so far. After I started using the PS app, I thinks it is very convenient, I can communicate with other herpes singles easily. Yes, PositiveSingles doesn’t have the same features as site, but it is more interesting and effective than other std dating apps, it has a feature called Drift Bottle, it is interesting, I meet some friends through this feature, I have tried many other popular dating apps including tinder, pof, badoo but I don’t have courage to tell them myself at first. Not like here, we are the same, together.

Also, their customer service is good, when I had a problem and sent them a message, I got a quick response. So I think this is very nice app, hope PositiveSingles becomes better and better and I might stay here even I found my match, so that I can get more friendship and support. Thank you!!

Good app; Constructive criticism

PositiveSingles seems to struggle GREATLY in properly organizing individuals in distance pertaining to your location. For example, I’m located in Charlotte NC and if I request too see women from up to 150 miles away it’ll often skip many Charlotte residents all together. I know this because if I switch from distance to just locating women in the entire State of NC I will see women located here in Charlotte that I didn’t see from the first search.
Also I understand that one certainly isn’t OBLIGATED by any means to EVER offer any type discount but one from time to time would be nice as a customer I personally believe. Regardless keep up they good work 👍🏾

Highly Recommend, Amazing Experience.

I'm someone who's given up on dating apps. But PositiveSingles is DIFFERENT. The pool of people on PositiveSingles are for real better than all other dating apps I've used. Here, people are serious about relationships and make their incentives clear. I've had much more engaging and relatable matches here, and easier conversatiosn with the provided icebreaker. Here, the local profile may be smaller but substantial HIGHER quality. The website can also filters out the bad choices for you by blocking thems, so it's super-verified and super-efficient. 100% would recommend for anyone looking for serious relationships and don't like wasting your time. Thank you (xxx), and hope the rest of you have fun on PositiveSingles.

Life Changing!

Before joining PS, I was coming out of 4 years of social isolation and barely leaving my house. Other dating apps were disappointing, rarely matched and dreaded having The Talk if we did. Within my first 24 hours on PS, I had 100 likes and messages started pouring in. Now, my 4th month on it, I have made several awesome friends, have gone on many dates and have a constant stream of attention coming in. Extremely validating for someone who’s had herpes over 20 years. There are many people on PS who are not at all my type, but it’s easy to block them and focus on finding quality matches. The more I’ve edited my profile to reflect my full, authentic self, the more magical matches I’ve attracted into my life. Thank you, PS, for giving me back my social life and connecting me with people who feel like my Tribe! Eternally grateful.

The best app

PositiveSingles is user-friendly and makes it easy to connect with people. Once you sign in, you'll discover many women. You can easily filter profiles to match your criteria. Compared to other apps, there are fewer spam bots and fake accounts, making the user experience feel more authentic. While getting responses from women can be just as challenging as on any other platform, the features here are outstanding. You can explore members both locally and globally, send messages, see who has liked your profile, and express your interest in others. I especially appreciate the feature that allows you to like and comment on someone's moments.



Is Positive Singles Safe? 🙏

Positive Singles®: Herpes Date appears generally safe, but use with caution. JustUseApp Safety Score for Positive Singles is 33.3/100.
This assessment is based on our NLP analysis of 7,126 user reviews. Combined with the app store average rating of 4.3/5.

Safety Analysis

68% of users say app is safe 👍
68%

17.5% of users have some concerns ⚠️
17.5%

14.5% of users say app is risky 🚨
14.5%


Is Positive Singles Legit? 💯

Positive Singles®: Herpes Date appears legitimate, though exercise caution. Our NLP models processed user feedback to estimate legitimacy. JustUseApp Legitimacy Score for Positive Singles is 33.3/100 .
This conclusion is based on analysis of 7,126 user reviews.

🔏 Privacy & Data Safety

Positive Singles collected the following data from you:

  • Data Used to Track You:
    • Identifiers
  • Data Linked to You:
    • Purchases
    • Location
    • Contact Info
    • User Content
    • Search History
    • Identifiers
    • Sensitive Info
  • Data Not Linked to You:
    • Usage Data
    • Diagnostics
    • Other Data

Payments 💸

**Pricing data is based on average subscription prices reported by Justuseapp.com users..

Pricing Plans Amount (USD)
1 month $33.99
3 month $69.99
6 month $109.99
1 month $33.99
6 months $109.99
3 months $69.99
1 month $33.99




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