SURGE – Gay Dating & Chat Reviews

by Alex Realtor

Recently downloaded SURGE . I was asked by one of the developers to write a review after they gave a brief (10 day) trial of the premium features. I’ve been waiting to write a review for a month to see if there were any issues. Aside from the scammers you see on most dating apps, so I’ll skip that and talk about the important stuff. SURGE moves smoothly! Messages are easy to track! Issues you might find with chat is voice recording. You’ll come across an issue the first time you set it up. The microphone either won’t pick up, record or SURGE will crash. I solved this by closing SURGE and restarting SURGE .

Huge issue and this is a little concerning. So I actually liked the platform enough to buy a subscription but within a week of purchasing the subscription I logged in: (today) and got a message stating my account had been blocked and it’s slated for deletion. For what reason? None was given. Of course I’ve emailed support to request a reason and have since cancelled my subscription. Probably won’t purchase another one for fear I’ll have spent money just to get blocked or worse deleted.

So hint! If you like a smooth running app, great! You’ll love SURGE! Scammers are easy to block or unmatch so you’re not going to deal with too many bots. If you want to subscribe and actually pay for it, be aware that you could be blocked and no they won’t be refunding you any of the money you spent.

by Aixkute

All I can say is the people handling SURGE is super unprofessional. I started using SURGE back in 2015, I was on and off until 2018 to 2019. Yesterday I downloaded SURGE again to see what's new and as I opened SURGE , there's a message that said my account has been blocked because I've violated their rules. Without much information or understanding, I contacted their support team. Then I received a response telling me that I've posted a link relating to some porn site which violated their rules in which they will not unblock my account. It's been 2-3 years since I've used SURGE and they had all this time to contact me to investigate this situation. They should have access to the chat history and see if I'm even that kind of person or not to even violate their rules. Their response is SUPER UNPROFESSIONAL and the way they handled this situation is the worst I've encountered. If anyone wanted to try SURGE or even give it a chance I would not recommended because no one will help you AT ALL and just give you super short response. DO NOT DOWNLOAD!

by Louvre2019

I first got on SURGE awhile ago and thought it was very well done. However the reason why I am giving it a 1 Star is majority of the profiles on SURGE are men claiming to be overseas for the military but in fact they are men living in foreign countries that barely speak English and want bank information or money. I even had accounts ask me for my social security number on SURGE. I’ve tried reporting these profiles but it doesn’t seem to go anywhere. I wouldn’t recommend SURGE to anyone cause you will risk loosing your money and identify on SURGE. I’m nervous that these fake profiles pose as these handsome men and concerned that they may have just screenshot someone’s photos from online or another dating site. I would suggest to SURGE developers to add a security feature on SURGE to where people have to send a photo copying a pose before they can set up an account. Until then, I’m getting off SURGE and going to find something more secure and trustworthy. Please do not download SURGE.

by BryGuy80

SURGE is full of con-artist. They spend a day or two talking real sweet to you before they ask for money. In less than two weeks on SURGE 5 different people (profiles) contacted me. All said they were enlisted in the service and deployed at the moment. All also stated that they would be state side in 7-15 weeks and they couldn’t wait to meet. After a few more days of speaking almost all of them told me their parents were dead and they needed money collect their personal belongings. Requests spanned a request from $250-$800. Another requested $50 Google Play digital cards emailed to him. Now today one of them asked for my bank login information to make a deposit for me. I keep blocking them and reporting. I can only believe that the creators of SURGE have got to be in on this scam. It is just to prevailing for them to not be well aware of the issue or in on it. They even rewarded me with a free month for a good review. Right after that is when the cons began to come in like crazy. Time to delete SURGE and you should as well or just don’t waste the time and download.

by Charlarog

SURGE is full of catfish and spammers, as many are. The difference is that the admins don’t care. Want to block somebody? You can try. But the admins have to approve the block. Otherwise, the user just stays unblocked. I’ve been getting harassed by one user in particular for six months. He always uses the same name, and it is always pictures of the same guy. I’ve blocked him close to a hundred times, and it keeps unblocking him. These people are content to take your money and ignore you forever. There is no “customer service” from them. I’ve contacted them repeatedly, and they always make the same excuse “we are working on it constantly”. Half a dozen updates later, and they have still done nothing, because they don’t care.

Edit: see my point? The reply they gave here is the same nonsense reply they have given me for months. Save your time and money, and run far far away. SURGE is easily as much of a scam as anybody you will meet on it.

by Guerrilladude

When the beautiful muscular men keep matching with you beware. They all seemed legit at first, numerous profile photos, sound charming. But then I started to notice repeating stories (how many contract building engineers are there?!); varying locations claimed as home with convoluted explanations; every one of these guys claimed to have been in, or currently serving, in armed forces; continually changing reasons why they couldn’t meet in person; falling in love with me after texting for a couple hours; using broken English while claiming to have been born in the U.S. (and then using perfect English that was obviously cut and pasted). I’m over 50 and all these men were 35 or less, so it may be a scam focused on older men. Searched a couple of the phone numbers they were texting from and saw that they are scam phone numbers. I might also add that the developers of SURGE seem like they are involved in this scam as within one day of installing, they magically gifted me with a month of free service that allowed me to see all these hot guys “liking” me so it made it very simple match with them (without premium version you can’t see the profiles of who likes you). No matter what SURGE and many of the users are extremely shady - my advice DELETE now.

by Rhythym Dances

I am tremendously disappointed. I was under the delusion that SURGE operated somewhat like jack’d or some of the others where perhaps there might be intrusive advertisements but you would still be able to talk to those that liked you. The reviews that I read now seem suspect. Many eluded to the prospect of being able to talk to your likes for free in an abridged interaction. That is not the case at all. Without paying you are unable to even see the people who claim to like. SURGE parameters of operation are misleading at best and deceptive if the truth where applied. Signing up is free but so what if all of the functionality of SURGE is inaccessible. I was able to speak to one person, whom I don’t recall liking, who turned out to be this unemployed non school attending gamer with obsessive fatalistic tendencies. WTH! I imagine he was allowed to contact me as a lure to get me to sign up for the paid services. Finally and very importantly, except for one person, I believe if I am recollecting properly, none of the people I was presented with was less than 3.5 miles away from me. Not exactly in the immediate vicinity. Being that I reside in NYC that is pretty telling in terms of scope and reach of this apps prescriber base. I will be deleting SURGE for all the reasons mentioned and more. Utter waste of time.

by Fruit Chris

SURGE was very nice the first couple of weeks when I first started using it. Met a couple of people only online and started chatting with them. And even made a friend from SURGE . But SURGE later presented its flaws like others. Lots of unusual requests from other users who contacted me with odd requests and later disappeared without any trace when I turned down there requests. Could tell that many of these people were fake users and without good intentions. I myself always remained very well out of conflicts or problems. And respected others. But suddenly one day out of the bloom got my account banned for not reason and explanation. Tried seeking help for an explanation and never received one. This speaks very negative about SURGE or it’s service. Makes you think things like they will get rid of you if you don’t subscribe for a paid subscription. At the very least they should warn you about something they don’t like about you or your profile to fix it before erasing you completely from there app. Wouldn’t recommend SURGE for long term use but just for curiosity. Good experience at the beginning but left me with a bad experience at the end.

by Frankfarm

After using this app for four weeks, the earlier one-star and low-star reviews are my experience as well—so many likely scammers. Only two guys I matched seemed likely legit. I’m tempted to delete SURGE , but to be fair it has potential and needs a critical mass of users in order to succeed, so I’m keeping it a while longer. We need more strong competitors in SURGE category in order to encourage all of them to improve and innovate. Usability tip: while swiping you can tap the photo once to show or hide profile details. That wasn’t clear to me for a while; it wasn’t obvious to me from the interface. My suggestions: (1) go thru the verified process (which took longer than I expected). Scammers are probably less likely to do so, so this helps others know you’re legit. (2) use SURGE for a few weeks before you review it and you’ll understand why its current 4.5-star rating is unwarranted.

by Suiamare

Overall, Decent App! The platform seems to operate much like Tinder, but intended for Queer men which I really like. Swipe left, swipe right. Basic functions. I think the option to have your profile verified is very important and helps to encourage authenticity and transparency which I really like. The options available to you for free still offer you opportunity to find, chat, and meet with other people in your area. At the end of the day, it’s the people who you the platform that really effect your experience with it, but definitely a good, purposeful, connection-based app in my opinion.

by Download_addict_17

I started using this app a few days ago and there are a number of things to appreciate about SURGE .

First, like a lot of other apps, it allows you to connect it with your current location so that you can see available men nearby. Second, I appreciate SURGE asking what I'm looking for - relationship, hookup, friends, etc. - and takes that into account (at least, I'm assuming it does). Third, the premium option allows you to see who's liked you so that you can like them back and begin chatting. Fourth, this app let's you post private photos that can only be viewed by your matches after they ask permission.

It's a very clean and well organized app. It's not as shady as Tinder, and not nearly as murky as Grindr. With another update or two, this app could very well be the official Gay Bumble.

by Lohansony

PSA: the more people who get and keep these apps, the better they will be. Living about an hour and a half from the nearest metropolitan area, it can be really hard to find guys. I’ve only had SURGE for a few days and while I haven’t met up with anyone on it yet, I’ve had more success than on other apps (hot or not, tinder, Grindr...) in that it doesn’t feel like SURGE wasn’t meant at all for you. SURGE ACTUALLY SHOWS YOU PEOPLE WHO ARE CLOSE TO YOUR AGE AND ARE NOT 500 MILES AWAY. As with any app of this category, if you want to find others like you, you HAVE to get and keep SURGE . A bigger user base means it will be less difficult to find someone near you who you might actually like! SURGE itself is easy to use (very similar to tinder or hot or not) and it allows you to have private photos you can grant or revoke access to on a user-by-user basis (however they keep removing mine......). Overall nice app. Modern and nice.

by Regence_Royale

I do like the interface of this app, it’s easy to use, friendly to trans and non-binary genders, and it’s basically an all gay app like how can you not love that?

My only complaints lie in how people out of your set distance and age range can like you but if you don’t increase your range, then you’ll never be able to match with them + this is probably just due to a lack of users, but for my set parameters and in my area, I ran out of swipes super fast and have only gotten one or two new cards per day, if that. Had it not been for an admin granting me a free one month trial, I wouldn’t have even known that these people were way outside of the parameters I set.

For instance, I’m looking for 18-23 guys, yet I’m getting a ton of 30-50+ guys ultimately don’t mind when it comes to making friends, it makes scoring a lasting relationship very hard when little to no one comes close to what you’re looking for, both within and especially outside of the things I’ve set. If SURGE can improve on that and hopefully grow and see more new users, I’d happily give you guys that last star.

- Christopher

Update July 21, 2018:
I found that expanding distance really does help, but I guess there’s just not a lot of people around my area to begin with. Hardly the developer’s faults though! I’m happily giving that last star for the great user service and the general usage of SURGE .

by Ashyboyy69

The little extra features are way more thought out and beneficial than Dating Apps like Tinder, Grindr, etc.. I’ve met chill guys, gentlemen (who are more wise than my 27 year old self) and great to get advice and guidance from. I’ve bet chill buddies that I have a lot in common with, and I’ve also met a few more serious potentials. The vibe isn’t dirty and slutty like Grindr and Scruff and these boys are super nice and not Pervy. I highly recommend it and the little extra per month for the Premium is completely worth it. I guarantee you that you will find a love interest in a week or two with no issue. Also the team member for San Diego named Martin is a total babe and super sweet. The only upsetting thing about the entire app is that I’m pretty sure he’s already taken. Total bummer but life happens. So stop reading anymore reviews and give it a shot. Seriously, what exactly do you have to lose? The answer is nothing, so good Surging to you Byeeeeeeeeeee

by MTB89roller

Downloaded SURGE thinking it was going to be another site for random hook ups just like the rest of them out there. I was pleasantly impressed that it is not. It’s much more then that. There are a lot of guys who are actively looking for something more. The features of SURGE are really easy to use also. It has an easy way of liking guys and seeing who matches with you. So far, while using SURGE, there have been no bugs or glitches that I can see. Plus, the Admins are extremely nice and willing to hear what you have to say. They’re extremely easy to get a hold of and are focused on making this a better way to meet locals near or anywhere in the country. Keep up the great work!

by Jamazing100

this app is great. Do know you need to pay to really get the best of it, but once you’re in - you’re in! Profile setup is easy, local search is easy, and it’s easy to get filter people you’ve liked, disliked, matched, power-liked, etc. There are also filters for types of members as well - the only one I use being the ‘profile verified’ so I can peruse others with complete profiles - they are so easy to set up ~ don’t bother wasting your time with someone who doesn’t have one.
Only been using it about a week, but it’s pretty nice. Got several chats going - and even if none of them look like they are going anywhere yet, it’s still super early and I’m only looking in a small radius. I’m sure in bigger cities there are lots of options :)

by {Mick}

So I am using three different apps currently. All of them have positive and negative features. So far SURGE has proven to be the best between the three. I have met really interesting people and all of them have been very honest and upfront with me regarding their wants and desires. In addition, I have been approached by the admin and was able to address some issues with SURGE . I am hopeful they will fix the one issue I have related to removing photos of individuals you have decided you “don’t like”. The other, not being able to upload locked pics, they let me know is an Apple and Google Play issue and that they are working at trying to resolve this issue. I happily rate SURGE as a 5 Star app. Btw, I did sign up for the premium membership and was happy with it.

by Ascvbng

Like Tinder but better: This gay dating app for men has tons of cool features with premium service including setting a location to search for guys, finding out people who like your profile, and setting what you are looking for in your profile, whether it’s a casual hookup or something more long term. I’ve already met some great guys on SURGE and really appreciate it’s easy to use interface... only thing I’d like to see changed is being able to have more space for a bio, perhaps adding more questions so you get a bigger feel for the guy you are looking at. OkCupid does this well, so I’d look to them for an example. Regardless, this is definitely one of the BEST gay dating apps for men I’ve discovered thus far. Looking forward to finding my Mr. Right sometime soon ❤️🧡💛💚💙💜

by Averiis

I shows you grayed our pictures of people you like you so depending on how hard you look and how good you are at comparing a gray image to a color image you figure it out. Also when do get a match and begin chatting the chat has a “seen” message once the person open the messages and sees it so you can pretty much tell if they are ignoring you or just haven’t opened the message. Unlike tinder where you are stuck in limbo wondering. The one thing I don’t like is if you send pics via chat you can only look at them once but I understand why so I don’t mind it all that much. I do like that if you choose to you can add private photos if that’s the kind of thing you are into and since it’s geared towards gay men there isn’t much you have to to set your parameters.

by The Band Of Banjos

Super easy to use and fun to play with. Swipe right for guys you like, swipe left for guys outside of that catergory, and click the profile to extract more deets... seriously, it's easy as 1, 2, 3!

I've used both regular and premium but I highly recommend investing in premium because it allows you to browse through your history and change from "no thanks" to "let's try this again." It also keeps a list of those who have liked you so that you can go in and play Mr. Destiny by liking them back immediately. Plus, you're presented with almost an unlimited number of guys so you're not restricted to a few within the surrounding area.

This is a great app to browse through zillions of guys with the swipe of your finger, so put in a little effort and match up with the right guy(s) for you!

by Umc1989

I had previously written a 5 star review because of all the cool features (especially certifying one's profile, which is easy to do and everyone should be doing it) but now I have to take one star off because apparently, even in the premium version, some of the limits from the free version persist.
I set my filter to only certified profiles and it doesn't work. It also doesn't give me an option to filter by bottom/top.
And I still have few swipes!! I thought that was an intentional limit from the free version but apparently, there are just not that many people using SURGE in my area.
🚨THERE ARE, HOWEVER, MANY GUYS HERE WHO JUST TRY TO LURE YOU TO MALWARE SITES OR SEX CAM SHOWS & GET YOUR CREDIT CARD INFO. DON'T FALL FOR IT!!!!🚨
🚨REPORT THEM!!!!!!!!!!!!🚨
I know developers can't directly control how many REAL users they have, but maybe if they work on adding filter settings and making sure filters actually work, more real guys would join/keep using SURGE ! :)
Other than that, it's a really great app.
HIGHLY RECOMMEND IT.