CarpeDM Reviews

I signed up for this app in February 2024, hoping for a premium dating experience. Unfortunately, after a year, I’ve only received 5 out of the 12 promised matches. For the high cost, I expected better transparency and delivery, but it quickly became clear that the male pool is not large enough to support the number of women subscribing. Instead of being upfront about this, they continue to take payments while failing to meet their own match minimums.

I requested a refund twice last year due to the lack of matches, but both times I was denied. Their solution? Extending my membership indefinitely until they can meet the required number of matches. However, of the 5 matches I did receive, only 3 were actual matches based on my preferences. It felt like they were just assigning men at random to fill quotas rather than providing quality connections.

To make matters worse, I was even told that men in their late 30s to early 40s in the DMV area don’t want to date a woman with a child. If that’s the case, why take my money knowing they couldn’t match me? This experience has been incredibly disappointing. While the concept has potential, the execution falls short due to their lack of a balanced database.

At this point, I feel trapped in a “death row” contract—paying for a service that hasn’t delivered what was promised. Unfortunately, I cannot recommend this app and would advise others to proceed with caution before committing.

Whats the point? Collect all my info then im never contacted after the review of my requested profile. Dont waste your time.

This seems too good to be true because it is. They lure Black women in whether they service your region or not, obtain and keep your photos (even after account deletion request), and they try and hold your profile hostage until you pay a $99 deposit even when they’ve rejected your profile for being out of their region.

I joined for the 6 month membership with 4 matches, and 3 out of 4 matches wanted children when I was clear with my match maker that I didn’t. I gave them a height preference, that wasn’t met. I gave a weight preference, that wasn’t met. After the first match they stopped trying and paired me with anyone in the community which has extremely more women than men. Not worth your time.

After my first match I immediately asked for my money back. I could go through all the details but long story short, I would never in million years recommend any woman pay for this service -- unless you are just desperate to find someone. I met better quality men on my own irl and on Hinge.

Not only is CarpeDM very wonky; the service is a well. I am paid member and I have received 2 “matches” thus far. Both I could have easily found on me own. The kicker is, Carpe DM can show you a picture of someone and that is counted as a match. Now you may not want to meet that person and that person may not want to meet you. But it is still considered a match. Yes, you heard that right. As in my case, they presented a picture and a bio of a man that I had no interest in but said I would be a good sport and do a video call. He also felt that I would not be a good match so he didn’t want to do a video call. But he was still considered a “match”. So honestly, you could pay, they show you a bunch of pics and you never meet anyone and they will still have your money. Tell me how that is better than dating apps 🤷🏾‍♀️😂

Created a profile and nobody’s on

I love the streamlined and simplicity of CarpeDM . It has the best of online dating plus professional matchmaking. My only wish is for Android version so I can tell my other friends to join!

I love CarpeDM! Can’t wait to explore my new matches.. Thanks this app

Carpe DM is the future of dating apps! Less catfishing and more genuine connections.

Love CarpeDM. It is user friendly and great to meet for people

A solid experience with a great platform

Finally a dating app that gets it right!

Very innovative ... can’t wait to see what the future brings 😎

Do yourself a favor—check it out!

Very user friendly. I really like CarpeDM so far. Still learning the tools but I enjoy its ease of use.

Carpe DM is a fresh take on dating apps. It gives people a chance to make an authentic connection. Also, I feel safer as a woman to do some fun due diligence via video call before I go out on a date. Love this!

I hate matching with 40+ people on Hinge or other platforms and having to filter through them myself and plan multiple dates—all while managing an extremely busy life. this app came through.

I read other reviews before joining, and yes, it is a tailored experience, so it takes time to find someone who truly matches you. I had a great onboarding process and told my matchmaker I only wanted 1 or 2 matches at a time—and they stuck to that.

After one month, I had two matches. Both felt like perfect fits. The only downside? They lived about two hours away. But honestly, I didn’t mind—it gave me more time to get to know them at a deeper level.

Overall, I highly recommend this service if you’re serious about finding your person and have the patience to understand that this isn’t Tinder or Hinge where you get 30 matches in a day. It’s intentional. It’s curated. It works.