I used this from January - December 2023.
As a male donor who offers AI, I'm rather confused, because on one hand, women are complaining they want AI only, it's like looking for a needle in a haystack, etc.
But the thing is, I feel I "have it all" in terms of genes, and I act courteously AND make a big intro message, to start things off when we match.
But as a donor, this is what I have experienced.
Most lesbian couples (when we match) don't bother reaching out... I always have to do it, despite them needing someone more than I need them.
Most of them are trashy-looking, and not someone I'd want people having kids with. It's rare to find couples who have both good communication skills and seem to have their shit together.
A LOT of them are asking for last-minute donations... which kind of person would want a last-minute donation from a total stranger? they would put more thought into a night out than making a baby.
Ghosting is a problem when things are going very well communication-wise... I mean, if you're looking for a donor, keep talking, because anyone can back out for the smallest reason, and many donors get cold feet! Donors are making a huge effort for your benefit, so be respectful.
So, as a good-looking male with good genes and characteristics who displays good communication skills and who displays none of the red flags these women complain about, I am extremely surprised to have had this experience. I hope this a wake-up call for women who are looking for a donor, and also an insight into the donor perspective who is sincere.