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Swiping is a horrible way to find a date. It’s an even worse way to find a donor or coparent. If the app developers really wanted to help people in their fertility journeys, they would use a search model and allow you to search for certain characteristics, etc. instead you must swipe through hundreds of profiles of people who are bot serious or clearly won’t meet your needs. The developers are clearly interested in making money as the app now even includes ads. It’s cynical when dating apps use these models that clearly don’t help, but this strikes me as much, much worse because a fertility journey is frustrating and sad enough without having the few tools out there be almost impossible to use

I tried this app for over a year and paid for several months until I decided that it is absolutely shady and useless. This app mostly contains abandoned accounts inactive for months or years, fake accounts (aka “test” accounts), empty accounts that have one word descriptions (eg. “whatever”, “checking“, “no”), and flakes. The goal is probably to convince normal users to believe there are many users and keep you paying and looking. It has also attracted the wrong crowd. On this app, I have met convicted insurance fraudsters, unemployed people asking for monthly cash payments before there is even conception, people looking for sex, and people asking for excessive personal information as they themselves remain anonymous and won’t even give their real names. Very weird and creepy. I eventually deleted this app and just went to a clinic to start my family. (Developers seem desperate in their responses to criticism so they will write they have thousands of active accounts chatting etc. I really wonder if they pay people abroad to create accounts and “test” the app to make it look like an active app with a community.)

This is a very sluggish app, it takes a while to load, randomly freezes, the interface is not intuitive and is full of people who are probably not real. So far I’ve connected and built entirely virtual relationships with at least a dozen women who are not who they say they are. I’m not even sure their pictures are real. They will tell you to connect with them on WhatsApp where they will hustle you endlessly for money but when the time comes to meet, they never follow through, probably because they are not real people to begin with. Most of these people on here are hustlers who prey on older couples desperate to have a child. If you want to be be conned out of your money and time, continue wasting your time on this app which in no way screens these people. At this point, I would just go with a legitimate surrogacy agency costing $60k overseas or $150k in the USA. Get a second mortgage or something, it’s not worth it wasting any more time on this app.