Spicer - Sex Ideas For Couples Reviews

by Spicersinner69

So Spicer sets the table for a fun change of pace with your significant other. The features are great and allow for good dialogue in what seems to be a private setting with whoever your partner is. Upon looking closer at the terms and condition though you will find something interesting.

Spicer is based an the concept that it suggests to you and your partner some things to change up the intimacy between the two of you. This does include some more explicit ideas and it’s obvious that the ideas are sexual (duh!) however Spicer does not allow for “the use of this service to communicate in vulgar or sexual explicit content”...sounds a little off. Then you look into the regulation of this term and find that it allows for the apps terms and conditions team to access your private account and see anything you and your partner share, quite an invasion of privacy.

Spicer has potential, and could be fun...just know when you’re sharing in some fun with your partner, this app knows and will be right there to give you a “strike” in attempt to ban you from Spicer . So enjoy, under the terms and conditions of course.

by Rbird888

We liked Spicer and the way it works, but ultimately had to abandon it. As a devout Catholic couple that admittedly leans conservative in the bedroom, there were too many questions that went way past our comfort zone and/or beliefs. Answering “no” over and over again isn’t really all that fun or interesting, and after a while even becomes a turn-off. If the questions were sorted into categories and then it was possible to exclude some of those entire categories as a whole, I would consider using it again. Spicer itself is top notch, and it has some really neat features. I think there is a huge market for something like this in a more customizable format.

by SamDer299

I pay for the premium version. Spicer has helped my wife and I both be more open and adventurous. I absolutely love Spicer and would recommend it to any couple that wants to spice up their sex life! There is one MAJOR issue. The chats do not notify you when you partner responds. If you are like us and answer lots of questions and start lots of chats you have to go through about 100 different chats one by one just to find where you partner responds. They really need to address this issue. Would have been 5 stars if the chats worked.

by Dadimus Max

The Mrs and I are enjoying our 25th wedding anniversary this year, and thought it would be fun to see what they’ve got on here we hadn’t tried. It was a good kick start for each of us to explore those questions/areas we just hadn’t had the guts to head into. Besides all the BDSM, Sex w/ multiple partners while the other watched (neither of us wants to share 😉) and bizarre sex slave stuff, there’s not a lot we haven’t tried at some point. What was nice was going back and talking over the questions, seeing what we want to revisit, and then being able to send each other dares . . . The challenges and the personal dares have turned out to be the most fun.

by A Sleeping Panda

Love Spicer . It has definitely changed the way my wife and I communicate about what we are interested in. The extra communication has allowed us to consider trying new things that both of us were hesitant to talk about.

Two minor complaints are that the ways to respond to questions are limited, which means you kind of need to establish what the options mean to you. Second is the sync times can be pretty slow. It was less of a problem once purchasing the membership, but I think that is a consequence of how Spicer verified access as opposed to intentional throttling.

by MartinaC

this app is a pretty cool app. My boyfriend and I really enjoy it! The customer service is phenomenal and are always there to assist you. They give very quick responses to your feedback. We both really enjoy Spicer.

Some of the features of Spicer could be changed like being able to put apps in your own categories so you can organize answers and they aren’t in one big list because after you have answered a lot of questions, the list gets extremely long. On the plus side you can search through your answers, but I really wish you could organize them.

by R&D04

There is a wide variety of questions available for free. Following the free questions you are able to purchase a questions at a nominal price. You can also make your own questions. The packs have to be purchased on both phones. The additions or things that are missing: No way to filter though question besides search functions (for matches and answered questions), no way to go straight to your own questions. This is worth the money and is good for both experienced and new couples.

by Shasky1

Got Spicer off a blog recommendation and was amazed on how many thing I forgot that my partner and I use to do. It has some great ideas that were old hat and some new ones. There are challenges for your partner to do, some dares that are pre-made or make up something personal. It worked better that expected. All my partner did was check off the things we have tried before. I also was able to get some answers to some things I wanted to try also, win win! There is a chatting function that allows you to send pictures as well 😉!
Either to try something new or rekindle your lost romance. I highly recommend Spicer and for the price of dinner for two, maybe you will have a lifetime of endless surprises. Great job!

by LadyWeasel

Spicer is extremely easy to learn and was a sexy, thought-provoking conversation starter for us. We were using it at various points in our work day and got really turned on and excited about the chats we’d had within Spicer . We’ve been together 14 years and are both GGG but this gave us 3 new intimacy goals within the first couple of hours. I’ve already recommended it to others and have gotten great feedback from them.

by Zhuss97

Let’s just saw this is what I’ve been looking for on a way to connect my marriage sexually with something other than words out of our mouths. We both are enjoying it very much. I feel like it’s easing some talks, questions, and answers that we’ve probably been to nervous or embarrassed to talk about. Great concept and very original. Keep it up guys!

by Twustman

Life changing may be an understatement. My wife and I had sex 15 times in the first 4 days after downloading Spicer. For real. We had an amazing sex life and this has taken it to another level I didn’t know was possible. We are now literally obsessed with each other. We are truly thankful for Spicer it changed our lives for the better. Thank you!

by Sherwood1110

My partner & I are enjoying Spicer! We are great with communication already - Safe - Sane - Consensual, but this is expanding our repertoire and increasing our communication. We are having fun coming up with dares & enjoying playful competition.

As for Spicer , I think it’s great but I would improve on the following:
1) Offer tutorials & how-to guides for app features
2) Allow members to link up with more than one partner, or even small groups with shared codes. I think Spicer is great for couples, but I would like it to be more accommodating to those who choose to share with more than one partner.
3) I would like to see more questions for non-binary people and trans people.

Either way, it’s important to talk about sex and this is a great tool to facilitate communication! Thank you!

by 19KT75

My partner and I love Spicer. I’m a forgetful person so it helps to have a list of what she’s into and what she might be willing to try. Being able to have separate conversations in Spicer about each idea makes it spicy and organized. App also takes away the hard part of communicating desires and wants without embarrassing yourself if your partner isn’t into it.

by Erok1992

I don’t write reviews very often, but Spicer has been an amazing tool for bringing the fire back in to our marriage. It opened a world of new possibilities and tore down the barriers that made us uncomfortable talking about intimacy. We have learned things about each other that we would have never dared ask. Easy five stars!

Warning: Some of the suggestions are graphic and extremely risqué. Not recommended for the prudish.

by TheFunOnes

Me and my woman was trying to think of more ideas and a way to get even closer and strengthen our bond while having fun and this able delivered there’s all kinds of different things you can do create a wishlist write your own questions for Spicer for everybody to answer and much more definitely recommend trying the truth and dare section I think you couples out there should try it out.

by Outdoorjema

My partner and I are really enjoying Spicer . Fun for us to track activities. Hard to figure out functionality occasionally. I.e. a few weeks ago I couldn’t get an activity to add, now my three attempts show up on what seems to be a revamped activities screen ... but now can’t figure out how to edit them. Grateful to have Spicer , look forward to seeing improvements. Will eventually probably move up to paid tier as we use it more and more 😊

by Brandon Stickland

So being in a long distance relationship can be extremely difficult, but Spicer helps keep the imagination flowing on the this app side of life. Keeps the fire burnin in the sexy part of the relationship with primers for conversation and allows for plenty to catch up on when you get to see your boo... Try it, and show your partner your wild side and guarantee she will amaze you with her reactions to the questions... Don’t forget to toss in a few custom questions of your own to really make it fun!

by WhimsicalAgony

Was 5 stars but I’m reducing it to 4 since I’m order to fully enjoy Spicer and use it for the true intention of Spicer you have to pay for the plus packs and have to wait an excruciatingly long time for “conversation starters” which has 100% helped open the lines of communication with my husband. 10/10 would recommend, but if you don’t have patience be prepared to wait for the really deep and juicy stuff that comes once you dive way into Spicer.

by Amers4life

I love that me and my partner can answer questions and quickly see what each other are into or not. There’s a chat spot to encourage more taking about your likes and encourage flirting with the spicy question that you and your partner may both be into. There is a calendar that can help keep track of intimate time line. There is a challenge area (dares) to encourage your partner to try/do something you would like and if they complete it within a time you allotted, they can earn point that can lead to yet another activity (rewards) that you can set and work towards growing together! Overall great app for building an more intimate relationship.

by RoseDeNose

this app asks questions about sex/kink/romance relates preferences. Questions are anonymous to each partner. A no-go won’t show up to your partner. Mutual interests will be listed and give a great starting point for discussions of new adventures. You can use this as a couple just starting out, or after years of marriage. It’s a great tool to advance your relationship. Most questions are sex/gender neutral so it works nicely for cis, trans, and non-binary partners alike.

by Guhytfrdeswaqzxcbm

The only reason this doesn’t have 5 stars is because the interface is a little hokey, it could be a smoother experience. That being said I do love Spicer and use it daily. I bought the yearly subscription for $20 and have zero regrets about it. It’s improved communication between my spouse and I exponentially and I really couldn’t be more pleased. Would recommend to anyone.

by Crzy8'sSwazyBates

I really do like Spicer , however I hate that you can’t create your own dares for either yourself or your partner. I just really wish that you could do this because then you’d be able to set up your dares ahead of time. Or just on your own if you don’t have a partner and you want to just set everything up for a kinky and fun game for any potential partner you may have in the future.

by John Grabowski

My wife and I tried this - hoping it’d work as an easier way to find matches about topics we probably wouldn’t have otherwise thought to talk about - and it did!

I’d like more flexibility with the length of time allotted to complete a challenge. There may be other functionality in Spicer I haven’t explored yet.

That said, this app is already responsible for some very exciting times between me and my wife - with hopefully many, many more to come.